it has happend to me and my brother many times is this wrong i dont really know if masterbation is wrong some people say it is and some people say it is not so idk help me!
2007-07-19 19:17:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do you mean is it only bad if other people catch you?
And it's happened many times? Yes, that's just wrong!
There's nothing wrong with doing it; everybody does it!
But isn't it just embarrassing and silly if you get caught?
2007-07-19 19:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No masturbation is perfectly normal. Unless a person is doing it many times a day. To get caught would be embarrassing for you and your parents/relatives but there is nothing wrong with it. I think those who say its wrong are embarrassed by how humans behave despite masturbation being a part of human nature or they just think self control should be practiced. But hey for guys masturbation is allot like shaving we do it once a week or more depending upon the guy, there age, or there hormones. Your human so seriously I wouldn't worry about.
2007-07-20 02:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masterbation in and of itself isn't wrong. I guess it would depend on your religion and your upbringing. My parents never discussed it with me but I am christian and always assumed it was wrong and sinful. So I guess you could say I have some hangups about that. But as for you, it's perfectly normal for you to be doing that. But if it begins to become a habit like several times everyday, then I would talk to someone about it. Try not to do it where you can get caught that isn't something your parents will want to see whether they agree with it or not. Lock you door whenever possible and pass that advice on to your brother.
2007-07-20 18:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by hazeleyes1279 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you are totally normal! It is HUMAN to masturbate! And guess what? It's okay! Who's mother/father HASN't caught them masturbating? We've all been there! I TOTALLY feelya for Realya! If you're going to masturbate and you live at home with the peeps, you should follow some simple rules! Don't do it when they are home..duh! Find the time when you know for certain they aren't going to be home OR coming home (If you don't know, and there's a chance they could come home, try doing it while you peer out the window where there's a good view of the driveway!) DO LOCK the door! Good luck, dude....and happy masturbating!
2007-07-20 02:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by crazynays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Notwithstanding your experience, according to the Bible masturbation was forbidden during the times of Jacob and the twelve tribes. This was because they needed male children to fight wars and if one masturbated then it would be less likely that they would conceive children.
Since that time, things are different and we know that the Bible was written for a time that is not our time. If masturbation is wrong then you wouldn't be able to do it. It would be difficult to believe that all of us have done it and it does not make us bad people. If religion is your contention, remember that Christ died for our sins and by doing so you are absolved.
2007-07-20 02:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by Boomer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. It is wrong if you are masterbating in front of others (family members, people under 18, or forcing the other person). It is a way of self exploration and self satisifaction. Although people don't want to see you doing it, just like you don't want to walk in on your mom, lock a door or do it in the shower so you don't get caught.
2007-07-20 02:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by rothe_jabbuk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not wrong or dirty... It's very natural... whats not natural is not finding somewhere private to do it... You and your brother have been caught many times?? Try going behind a door that has a lock on it.. it's not wrong when you get caught.. it's just embarassing.
Masturbation is the safest sex. And nearly everyone does it.
2007-07-20 02:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by stifflergal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only people who say that masturbation is "wrong" are RELIGIOUS nutjobs. Everyone masturbates, okay? It's perfectly fine and perfectly HEALTHY. Just consult ANY health website (that's not religious) on the Internet if you don't believe me. However, I advise you to have fun when you're sure that you're alone so no one can catch you!
2007-07-20 02:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guilty of masterbating because I have to.
It's the only way to keep the curls out of my hair.
2007-07-20 02:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural the only reason people feel guilty about it is because that's what they were taught don't let anyone call you a loser because i guarantee if they haven't done it yet they will eventually everyone does. as a matter of fact even your relatives do just try not to get caught.
2007-07-20 02:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by wolfcat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋