im only 13 and i always think about guys from school raping me or someone coming from behind and attacking me, i know its bad but i rly like it. so is it normal? do other girls my age or older think about being raped to and enjoy it?
2007-07-19 19:01:20 · 22 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is not normal and I can't believe you would post something like this. I had a friend who came to my house after she got raped and it was NOT cool.
2007-07-19 19:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your confused on your actual fantasies. You more than likely fantasize about being dominated and controled. You have no idea what rape involves physically and emotionally. Its like being face to face with the devil, and there's no mercy when it comes to pain and agony. The scars it leaves are ones you pretty much cannot talk to anyone about, theres alot of raw humiliation and sense of worthlessness. You would not want another man near you, much less touching you. From the outside rape may not seem very severe, but if you experienced it you would realize what I mean.
2007-07-19 19:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by cindy h 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's fairly normal. I had a few dreams about getting raped growing up, not good dreams, more nightmares. But as for fantasizing, It's normal. It shouldn't last long though.
I just don't really understand the enjoying it part.
It's more of a like uknown understanding of the whole concept, fantasizing maybe? But not enjoying it...
Rape is nothing any girl would enjoy.
If your fantasies continue for over a month or so, I would consider telling your mom, or maybe your school counsolor.
2007-07-19 19:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by Allora 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, don't think youre abnormal.
It actualy has nothing to do with the actual crime of rape, because no woman wants that -- Its more of having that feeling that someone else is in control. That you have no control over what is going to happen next.
When that concept is applied to life -- it is -- life is full of surprises. People get excited by that concept.
Therefore, women can get excited over the thought of not knowing what is happening next.
The most concrete way to imagine, or fantasize that -- is the rape scenario.
2007-07-19 19:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what rape is? It's not something a girl or woman enjoys and looks forward to. It leaves lifelong scars on victims of this vicious act.
If you are fantasizing about being raped, I think you have some issues you need to deal with. Talk with your pediatrician and get referred to get professional help. I'd hate for you to want to be raped and then get raped. Get help, ok?
I used to be 13 and so did my girlfriends, we never, ever fantasized about being raped.
2007-07-19 20:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-09 02:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just confused about the difference between rape and normal sex. Rape is a bad thing.
2007-07-19 19:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Moral Orel 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah well you arent viewing it as rape. It sounds like you are having sexual fantasys of guys you like being sexually aggressive towards you. Stop refering to you dreams as rape. If you are screaming "no no" in your dreams then yeah you are dreaming of rape. But if you arent saying no and like it in your dreams than that is not rape.
So just keep these dreams to yourself and dont worry what other people think.
2007-07-19 19:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by Educated 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
thats f*cked up. everyone was 13 and had fantasies, but not about being raped. you dont get it that once its gone, you dont get it back. that what you were saving, was taken from you by force. being raped is nothing to enjoy. let alone fantasize about. my friend still shudders when she thinks of the night she was raped. girl, you have some serious issues you need to work out with a shrink. and get that sh*t out of your head. people become mentally unstable and have permanent trauma damgae from it, but yet your here fantasizing about it.
your sick
2007-07-19 19:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by steph 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋
lol yea as long as u dont literally seek out a raper lol...but if u and ur partner r kinky go buy some fake handcuffs and blindfolds and just roll play a bit before sex- it makes things funner. BUt its also a trust level with ur partner dont do it if u dont trust them.
2007-07-19 19:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋