I know i am going to anger some people here but?

Question

Why are there so many women that do not take responsibility for there actions? Sometimes i come to yahoo answers and just sit here and read answers and questions that women post and answer. The one thing i notice is there lack of self responsibility. I read 1 that seems to think that she should be able to walk around in public naked and not get raped. There is another one that just can't seem to understand that all men are not going to like nose rings. What is it with some of these women that they don't seem to understand that when they are single it's how they portray themselves to other people that matters. For instance' A Good guy you might could get will not pay any attention to you because to him you look like a walking pin cushion. Then the woman/girl can't figure out why she can't get a good man. This question is not meant to be inflamitory. I just like trying to figure out what makes some people tick.

Tomorrow i might as this same question except it might be about men. I am a equal oppertunity offender.

1 other thing. This is where yahoo sent my question. I didn't put it here.

And i am not a troll. A man can't even ask a honest question on here. That is why i don't ask many questions. Honesty doesn't seem to be welcome here.

Sorry "God" But common sence says to look around you and see for yourself. But first you have to open your eyes. I am not being general. It's just the truth. And it's right there under your nose.

Yes Adam Sinned. But who tempted him? But what does that have to do with my question?

Answer 1

If you want to debate about those who lack assuming responsibility for their actions and would like to point fingers at just women, please allow me illustrate my position with this example: Yes, there has been a surge in young, single mothers. However, correct me if I am wrong, but these women did not impregnate themselves, did they? And I am almost certain that they did not tell the men to walk away from them and their child.

Yes, making bold statements of your beliefs opens you up to a lot criticism but how a person expresses themselves by physical means isn't necessarily representative of their level of intelligence. I have known many intellectual people to be covered in tattoos and piercings.

And since you (although you deny it) are generalizing women, I would like to comment that a majority of the lewd and vile questions/answers are made by men or boys in the most crass of manners.

You want to figure out what makes some people tick, but I am at the same time trying to figure out what made you so angry toward women, especially those that are opinionated. Did it ever occur to you that some of these Q&A you've read are possibly posted by young girls and not necessary women?

Self responsibility is an attribute that people of both sex can lack. Period.

Answer 2

Ok here is my answer to your question- I am not angry with you, however, I cannot understand something- the woman who says she can walk around naked, is wrong, but the man who rapes her is just as wrong, he could have turned the other way, and by the way, rape is really not a sexual act it is a violent act. I agree also that single woman looking for a good guy, may not get one if she does things that aren't honorable, but please don't just point fingers at the woman-
I am a woman, and I would never have done what some single women do to get a good man. I DID NOT HAVE TO - I have a great man, who has been married and faithful to me for 26 years. before you point fingers at the woman, remember Adam is a sinner too.

Answer 3

I have heard and read so many rants from fat, ugly, yellow-toothed, bad-breathed, spectacled, dumpy, uncool dorks that whine, "women are such shallow b*tches because they won't see past the outside and appreciate a guy for what's inside," that I will answer this question by saying: "WhatEVERRRRR!"

If I'm running around naked, a guy should take responsibility for his own self-control by keeping "it" in his pants! And if he doesn't like my tiny, diamond, nose stud ... he can piss off!

No offence back.

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Answer 4

I think you are generalizing and describing a lot of people, including men and women. Also, when you compare the number of people who respond to questions versus how many people there are in the world, what you are getting is just a tiny percentage of people answering these questions.

Answer 5

Your assumption that all men always take full responsibility is offensive.

Also, your implication that a woman who is naked deserves to be brutally attacked and traumatised for life.

Are all men completely subhuman?

Wouldn't a man who raped her and said it was because she was naked, be evading responsibility for his crime?

Or are you saying no man is responsible if he commits rape because men can't help themselves?

But back to my original point, there are PEOPLE who don't take responsibility for how they come across, or for their behavior.

Men who whine that they have to pay for children they fathered (were you in the room during conception? then shut up); men who treat women like sub-humans, then wonder why women don't like them -- to name just 2 examples.

Men who assume that women are identical to men in their sexuality, then wonder why no woman wants to have sex with them, is another popular move.

Why are you blaming women only?

Yep, you provoked anger all right.

All men are perfect in every way, but there's something wrong with women.

Answer 6

Generalizations such as yours just don't float. You are a genderist. You don't see the vast amount of questions and answers written by men who seem to have their head in the bad place? Take your question for example. A perfect example of a biased and uninformed observation.

Answer 7

1 - What does this have to do with religion and sprituality?

2 - What on earth is the correlation between nudity and rape? All of us are naked under our clothes, are we all "asking for it"?

3 - Who died and made you the fashion police? Some men find nose rings sexy. Some men are walking pin cushions themselves, but still good men.

Bugger off you troll!

Answer 8

I don't know what you're talking about but if that does happen than that's sad. I however am not like that and I'm postive that most women on here are the same.

Answer 9

Perhaps it is easier to blame MEN for everything than it is to accept personal responsibility for ones own life, and the results one gets (or doesn't get).

Accepting responsibility means that one has to out forth some effort to meet people halfway, and to put forth some effort to improve oneself.

It is easier to simply complain and wait for the entire universe to change to suit them.

Answer 10

Some people do not want to accept responsibility for themselves, hence they rely on some god to do that.

However, until they do accept self-responsibility, they reap whatever they sow. It is a fact of life. There are consequences to everything.