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2007-07-19 15:53:05 · 11 answers · asked by kekeB 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

11 answers

what's the verse? You want US to look it up?

alright.

15The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.

It means to discipline a child.

But a child left unto himself ( like many are today) will bring shame to his mother (because he was not raised correctly.)

The rod is not a rod to beat the child with, contrary to some beliefs.

A rod is a rule. A measure of discipline.

2007-07-19 15:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by pinkstealth 6 · 1 0

The discipline mentioned here does not mean simply physical punishment, though that is necessary on occasion. Children must know not only what to do and from what to refrain, but also why certain things are right or wrong. In other words, effective discipline of children calls for corrective counsel that children will accept as being right.

This need can be met by heeding the further Scriptural command at (Eph. 6:4) Children must learn the way man’s Creator thinks, the things that God likes and dislikes. In order to provide such mental-regulating, parents themselves must be well acquainted with the Bible.

2007-07-19 16:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by conundrum 7 · 0 0

Proverbs 29:15: “The rod and reproof are what give wisdom; but a boy let on the loose will be causing his mother shame.”

In Bible times, the Hebrew word for “rod” (she´vet) meant a stick or a staff, such as the one a shepherd used to guide his sheep. (Psalm 23:4) Similarly, “the rod” of parental authority suggests loving guidance, not harsh or brutal punishment.

She´vet is often used symbolically in the Bible, representing authority. (2 Samuel 7:14; Isaiah 14:5) When referring to parental authority, “the rod” does not refer exclusively to physical punishment. It encompasses all forms of discipline, which most often need not be physical. And when physical discipline is employed, it is usually because other methods have proved unsuccessful. Proverbs 22:15 says that foolishness is “tied up” (“anchored,” NJB; “deep-rooted,” The New English Bible) with the heart of the one receiving physical discipline. More than mere childish frivolity is involved.

Wise parental standards give children a feeling of security. In addition: “The rod and reproof are what give wisdom; but a boy let on the loose will be causing his mother shame.” “The rod” refers to parental authority that must be applied lovingly to prevent children from going astray. Wielding such authority does not involve abusing the child in any way.

Parents are shown to be fully responsible for their children, and discipline is emphasized as essential. (Proverbs 19:18; 22:6, 15; 23:13, 14; 29:15, 17) The father’s responsibility is highlighted, but the child must respect both father and mother if he wants life from Jehovah. (Proverbs 19:26; 20:20; 23:22; 30:17)

In the Bible, discipline is consistently linked with love and mildness, not with anger and brutality. The skillful counselor should be “gentle toward all, . . . restrained under evil, instructing with mildness those not favorably disposed.” (2 Timothy 2:24, 25)
Therefore, discipline is not an emotional outlet for the parent. Rather, it is a method of instruction. As such, it should teach an erring child. When administered in anger, physical discipline teaches the wrong lesson. It serves the need of the parent, not that of the child.

Furthermore, effective discipline has boundaries. “I shall have to chastise you to the proper degree,” Jehovah says to his people at Jeremiah 46:28. This is especially vital to remember when administering physical discipline. Hitting or shaking an infant can lead to brain damage or even death. Going beyond the intended purpose of discipline—to correct and to teach—may lead to child abuse.

The scriptures certainly do not promote abuse.

Before correcting his people, Jehovah said: “Do not be afraid, . . . for I am with you.” (Jeremiah 46:28) Discipline should not leave a child feeling abandoned. Rather, the child should sense that the parent is ‘with him’ as a loving, supportive encouragement. If physical discipline is deemed necessary, the child should understand why. Proverbs 29:15 says that “the rod and reproof are what give wisdom.”

It is a sad fact that today many use “the rod” of parental authority abusively. Yet, fault cannot be found with the Bible’s balanced principles. (Compare Deuteronomy 32:5.) When we consider “the rod” in its context, we see that it serves to teach children, not to abuse them. As in other matters, the Bible proves to be “beneficial for teaching, for reproving, for setting things straight, for disciplining in righteousness.” (2 Timothy 3:16)

2007-07-19 16:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by the_answer 5 · 0 0

Children who are not disciplined and restrained by their parents will grow up and bring shame on them as well as hurt themselves. My 30 month old son some times only needs my voiced raised or a certain look to obey me. But at other times I "have" to discipline him otherwise my negligence will hurt him far more than correction ever could! Just as the Lord trains and corrects us because He loves us and doesn't want us to get hurt, a parent's love should be no less.

2007-07-19 16:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by HeVn Bd 4 · 0 0

If you read a little further, it explains itself. Proverbs 29:17 Discipline your son, and he will give you rest; he will give delight to your heart.
The Bible tells us that if we do not correct and train our children, than we do not love them. I have to agree. If I did not correct my daughter, and keep her from running into the street, what type of mother would I be. People would say that it was shameful! They would be right.

2007-07-19 16:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sommer S 2 · 0 0

Spank a child. Pr 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. If you don't discipline children, you will have problems.

2007-07-19 15:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by RB 7 · 0 0

I always thought that the rod meant the word of god. Reproof could means counciling the child via the word of god

2007-07-19 16:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by astral_lds 3 · 0 0

Discipline by the parent = good child.
No discipline = bad child.

2007-07-19 15:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by Joey 2 · 1 0

A spoiled child will eventually bring shame to his/her parents...

Discipline will bring wisdom...

Kick their butts when they do wrong !!!!

but remeber to explain to them why your doing it....
so as to give them the wisdom to never do it again....lol

2007-07-19 16:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Common Sense 2 · 0 0

What exactly do you want as an interpretation in the verse?

2007-07-19 15:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by May 4 · 0 0

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