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would you like to marry someone who has a standard or someone who just do "whatever" he/she desire?

when you put your money on a bank, which bank you think will protect you (money) the most, the one with strong ethics and standard and fear the state Law? or the one that just go with what they desire it's right regardless what the state law says?

2007-07-19 15:46:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

19 answers

I would want to marry someone with prior experience. Practice makes perfect, so they say. I'd rather be with someone who knows what they're doing. I think waiting until marriage to have sex is just a bad idea. Lots of marriages end because of intimacy problems. People really should know whether or not they are sexually compatible before they get married to avoid potential problems later

2007-07-19 15:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 2

I've already married someone who had a past. So what? What is the question you are asking? Are you asking about a double standard? Are you asking whether or not there is good or bad in a person? Are you so far above yourself that you would even consider asking such a dopey question? How righteous are you? Sheeesh. And to use a "bank" as an example? Huh?

2007-07-19 15:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 2

I would marry someone with a high standard and have the ceremony inside of an ethically strong bank.

We'll never get a divorce !!!

2007-07-19 15:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by The Uncanny Comic 5 · 1 1

I believe there are several reason why one should wait till marriage before having sex. 1. God says so. 2. It makes it more special. and 3. there are to many ST D'S out there including HIV/AIDS. Teens between the ages of 15 and 24 has one of the largest HIV positivity rate in the united states. Just because it looks good and smells good doesn't mean it's good. Be wise when making huge decisions involving sex. Abstinence is the best choice. Please to all who read this educate yourselves and pass the knowledge on. Be Safe and God Bless.

2007-07-19 16:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Comparing sex to putting money in a bank and state law-what a very romantic way to put things. I'm sure that puts them right to sleep.

I would like to marry someone with a similar value system to mine, yes. Someone who is not smug and self-righteous would be nice.

But the analogy you use is peculiar.

2007-07-19 15:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Julia Sugarbaker 7 · 3 1

I would rather go with some one with standards but I will marry a human- someone who has made mistakes. But who has repented and turned from their mistakes. I wouldn't marry someone who just did what they wanted and still wanted a nice normal marriage because that isn't going to happen.

People who carry baggage from past intimate relationships will ruin marriages. I know many, too many to count- marriages that failed because they did not keep themselves prior to marriage and the issues just haunted them throughout what should have been a great marriage.

God's way is the best way! There is just no way around it.
Wait until marriage- there are less problems that way.

2007-07-19 15:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzi 3 · 0 3

I would like someone with standards. I have many standards for myself in the dating department. It would be nice for my partner to be the same.

2007-07-19 15:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by manda 3 · 2 0

i would want to marry someone with a standard

2007-07-19 15:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

What about sex instead of marriage? You can't expect everyone to have the same restrictive code as you have. You do what you want to do and I'll do what I want to do.

I know who will be having a lot more fun...

2007-07-19 15:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by tentofield 7 · 3 1

I would never have married my husband without ' testing the waters' first.

Sex is a natural body function. And denying yourself a part of life out of some bronze age sense of morality is kinda sad to me.
We don't praise people for starving themselves for god, why should we praise them for chastity for god?

2007-07-19 15:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by hypno_toad1 7 · 2 2

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