Since I've away at my dad's house I've been having feelings of qualm and pang, but not really anymore. When I think about and have good times with my mom, this feeling comes over me that I began to think about what happens when she dies? Will we ever meet again in heaven? I do this with all m family memebers. So could it be I miss her or what?
This is kind of dirty but it doesn't make me sad to see my mom sad, she began to cry because my grandfather recently pass away, But I felt nothing. But when my grandma is down I break down. Do I miss my mom?
2007-07-19 14:51:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
Well, the sad truth is that everyone will die, sooner or later. The important thing is that you love them, and let them know you love them, and make good memories now.
It's harder now that your mom and you live apart. Try to write letters, send e-mail or call at least once a week, and let her know what's going on in your life. Send pictures, if you can.
Only time can help with missing your mom -- and getting together with her, of course. Have fun with all your family members now, when you can. This will make good memories for when you are alone.
2007-07-19 15:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Madame M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is a special situation. My mom died 4 months ago. We had a tight special bond. She was my rock and everything. I came home from work one night just 20 minutes after I called her to tell her I was on my way home and I found her dead on the bathroom floor. My life has changed so much that now I am taking care of my elderly dad and my 4 yr old daughter. Life isn't easy sweetheart and you've only seen 13 yrs of it. Live life to the fullest everyday. Call your mom and have lots of conversations with her and make sure that you always tell her you LOVE HER everyday too. Thats important and mean it even though I know you do already. Death pops up in all of our minds; for some everyday and others they don't think about it. We don't know when our times is up but while we are still living and breathing we need to enjoy it. Don't let anything get to you.When you are having bad thoughts or just not feeling right thats when you really need to pray and ask God to take these feelings away from you. Being 13 and your a male you are going through alot and changing everyday. This is natural sweetie. Everything will be fine. Enjoy your summer. Continue to be a young man and just live on. By the way I am so sorry to hear about your grandfather. Good luck baby!!
2007-07-20 01:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by canalopes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit imagining the worst. I use to be afraid my parents would die so I just pretended that they could never die and it kept me happy.
My Dad died when I was 19. I miss him a lot. Not as much as I use to but if I go to his grave I still break down and cry. Why would I waste the few precious years I had with him fearing his death? I didn't. Enjoy today, every one is anxious when they are growing up because you don't understand everything that is going on to turn you into an adult.
Why be sad while they are still here? Tomorrow has enough grief to be sad. Try to enjoy life now and let tomorrow take care of itself.
I'm sure you do miss your Mom nothing wrong with that. Give her a call.
2007-07-19 21:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
According to Dreamcrowd:
To see a ceiling in your dream, represents a mental or spiritual perspective. It may also symbolize the limit you have set for yourself.
To dream that you are emotionless, suggests that you are closing yourself off from those around you. You may be neglecting your own feelings and should start paying more attention to them.
To dream that you are emotionless, suggests that you are closing yourself off from those around you. You may be neglecting your own feelings and should start paying more attention to them.
To dream that you are making or writing a will, indicates that you are looking ahead at the future. You may be starting a new phase in your life. The dream may also a pun to mean your willingness or determination to do something. To dream that something is left for you in a will, represents characteristics or qualities that you can learn or adopt from your ancestors.
To see your own family in your dream, represents security, warmth and love. Consider also the significance of a particular family member or the relationship you have with them.
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2007-07-20 04:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't worry, you have to live your life without thinking of the bad things that could happen, I am 13 too, and I live 33,000 miles away from my dad, I see him 3 months a year, and the worst thing is, he's a cop. Anything could happen.
2007-07-19 22:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Baby V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I think about people dying i think its because you love them so much and you don't wanna let go. I mean I get these feelings too, but you can't just let it walk over you, think of something other than your mom. But I know it can be hard to not think of her and plus you miss her alot. So I hope it'll work out.
- CiCi
2007-07-19 22:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by rongranger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, your lucky to have a mom, try to enjoy her and love her the best you can. My mom has been gone for over 20 years and it sucks to not be able to remember how her laugh sounds...
2007-07-19 22:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by gus_zalenski 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get this to when i see my dad get on a rollercoaster i am afrid that he will die!!! Or if my dad gets on an airplaine than i am afraid! But what gets me through it is i pray for him and it helps to feel that god is watching over him! hope that helps!!
2007-07-21 23:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by Dina M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same, and I'm 21. I love my mom so much!
2007-07-19 21:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It;s called seperation anxiety. I get like that too. You love your mommy, thats all.
2007-07-21 05:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by suga...honey honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋