i saw before 5 hours my boyfriend with another girl IN MY BED! What should i do?
2007-07-19 14:21:13 · 54 answers · asked by kittana! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think about it and if you are sure then call him and then try to talk about the past
2007-07-22 18:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you even have to ask this question then you must have self esteem issues. Of course you should not forgive him. He obviously has no respect for you if he can have sex in your bed with another girl. What a slap in the face!!!! Don't worry about him and instead ask yourself why you are attracted to men capable of such actions
2007-07-19 14:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ron Rico 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, i would say no. IN YOUR BED,thats extremely disrespectful. He knew exactly what he was doing. I wouldnt forgive him for that. IN the event that you do forgive him for cheating on you, just realize this is something that youre going to have to deal with for the rest of the relationship with him. He is going to have to gain back you trust, because this is something you will NEVER forget. Good luck girl! I hope he is worth it.
2007-07-19 14:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jackeeeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was the only one you caught him porking. Imagine how many more there are that you don't even know about. You just happened to catch him with this one, but what about all the others you missed? How many can there be? Ten? Twenty? Don't think for a minute that this is the first time he did it. He was just getting real brave to nail her in your own bed.
Did you at least change the sheets after that?
2007-07-19 14:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his ASSSSS Girl. Why are you even on here! That was a double WHAMMY. He cheated on you (disrespectful, betrayal, disloyalty) and in your bed (very very disrespectful) he has no respect for you or no concious. He could have atleast took her somewhere else instead of on your bed spreading her juices around on your sheets and probaly wasn't going to wash them. So you were gonna come and cuddle up in her nasty juices. You need to kick his a double s and move on because he had no respect for you and doesn't love you and if he did he has a hell of a way of showing it...whew sorry but that pissed me off
So sorry. Hope you find someone you deserve
2007-07-19 14:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your bed? that is nasty if I caught some dude in my bed I would be heated. I wouldn't forgive the my GF either I would kick her out along with her "new bf". Matter of fact I would call the cops and try to get him arrested for trespassing since it is MY house.
Don't take that junk...
2007-07-19 14:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Drop his a** right this second! IN YOUR BED??? That's showing even greater disrespect than if he was sleeping w/ her elsewhere! There is NO FORGIVENESS for such a lewd, disgusting act. The bed you and he share together should be kept sacred and not debased so vulgarly! He obviously doesn't care about you!
2007-07-19 14:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by HoPeFuL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from my background in religion, I can say that there is no forgiveness without repentence. You don't just forgive him like nothing happened....he must face up to what he has done, express regret about it, promise not to do it again, etc.....then you can forgive him.
Remember, Jesus Christ said, "go and sin no more." He didn't say, "you are forgiven, do whatever you want, it's okay."
2007-07-19 14:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should dump his sorry @ss. any guy who would have sex with some other chick in your own bed, doesn't deserve forgiveness....you need a man who will respect you. which is something your so called boyfriend is totally incapable of doing.
2007-07-19 14:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by tweetybird37406 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been together?
people make mistakes,especially in long term relationships,when the sex becomes predictable.
has he done this before,do you suspect he has before?can you talk openly about it?
was the relationship heading anywhere<
you need to think about where you want the relationship to go,prior to his cheating.
keep in mind,men cheat for different reasons then women do.
with men it is usually purely for sex,not emotional attachment.
i will say trust is the most important aspect in a long term relationship,and he just went along way to ruining it.
2007-07-19 14:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you should get rid of him first and then forgive him. Even if he does not seek forgivness. Don't take him back either just move on with your life.
2007-07-19 14:24:58 · answer #11 · answered by Steven M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋