I dont know what to do, I am so miserable.
The guy I loved for 5 years just broke my heart. We have been BESt friends for about 6 years, I developed deep feelings for him as time grew, even when I had other boyfriends, I always thought of him. Me and him never "went out" we hooked up and made out a few times and I thought he liked me.
recently he stopped talkng to me so i told him i was upset that he tricked me. he was like what do you mean tricked u? i told him " u made me think u liked me when it was obviously bull sh it. " and he replied sayig "sorry" WHAT!!!!! SORRY?! so i said what ever and he said dont be all pissed.
im having a hard time dealing with this because i loved him for so long, no matter what guy im with
2007-07-19 13:18:02 · 14 answers · asked by just me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you guys keep arguing w/ ea. other it will be over. Think in terms of trying to salvage and patch things up. You've mentioned that you still love him. So dont destroy whats left by being rude and harsh. Unless you have decided to just give up. In life all we can do is try. If things work out they were meant to be if not then not. Try to talk things out as best and as calmly as you can and see how it turns out. Then you can say to yourself w/ confidence...atleast I tried. Hold your head and pride high. Best wishes.
2007-07-19 13:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a bf for 3 years.. He claimed he loved me and that hed never let me go. Then all of a sudden he just broke up with me.. OUT OF THE BLUE!! And I was devastated for a long time. So yeah 1 boy did break my heart. Now I'm going out with a guy who again claims he loves me. He hasnt done anything to upset me or to make me mad and we have been going out for 5 months. As my best friend says... "Many guys will like u a lot and break ur heart but the ones who LOVE you will never ever hurt u." Also, learn to trust your bf. If you cant trust him there is no reason for you to be going out with him. A non trustworthy relationship will only end in tears, Sista!
2016-04-01 02:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..... these porblems happen all the time. Well if he topped talkibng with you he was obviously not a good boyfrined to begin with. Its good that when you have other bfs but you stick with yer main man.
Dont let him get to you. *Sorry* is not smart response to someone you just brok there heart to. You shoudl tell him that he broke your heart and ask if he would like to be friends again. But dont try to patch up the realationship it could only lead to more problems.
There are other fish in the sea.....just wait patiently then the right man will come along and this guy wont let you down like thi guy did.
I am sorry he hurt your feelings. If I knew him i would kick his @ss for hurting your feeling.
Deepest Sympathy ~z w~
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2007-07-19 13:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Home Dogg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on the info that you've given, you set yourself up for heartbreak. He was not your boyfriend and I'm sure he didn't tell you that he wanted to be your man otherwise you would have said that. You were a friend with benefits. Maybe in your own mind, you thought it was something more but that's your own fault. Don't be mad at him. There's always a risk of this happening when a girl has casual sex with a guy friend. Chances are you like him but he just sees you as a friend he's having sex with.
2007-07-19 13:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by cutie pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been in a similar situation, I have to say that maybe you should look at what he's been dealing with. He's always been there for you; have you always been there for him? Every time you went off with someone else, he was left behind, you know, because he's "the friend." Maybe he really does care about you, but it hurts. Trust me, I know... So instead of freezing him out, maybe you should try talking to him and asking him how he feels about the situation. At least it'll clear the air.
2007-07-19 13:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a time out from guys and per sue something just for you. Buy a small ice cream cone, youve earned it. Move slowly in the next relationship. Accept what happened and move on when you are ready, but dont forget what you have learned.
2007-07-19 13:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously he thought you were just friends with benefits. if you never went out and never told him what you wanted out of the relationship. he's right to tell you not to be pissed...because he probably had no idea what was going on in your head. you have to speak up if you ever want anyone to know anything. don't assume that they know. or else this kind of thing will happen to you again.
2007-07-19 13:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by gymclasshero 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm really sorry, hun :( that really sucks, the best i could say is just try to forget about him and it will be hard but if all he could say after taht is sorry, after being best friends for 5 years!!? something is obviously wrong with that. you definately deserve better. im really sorry
2007-07-19 13:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by BeccaBoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to you, what was he suppose to think the more guys you went out with the more you like him...there was no way he could know how you felt...and obviously you didn't realize how he felt about you or you would have put more effort into allowing him to get to know you than other guys got.
2007-07-19 13:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sound of it he didn't like you like you liked him. Move on, I know it hurts now but trust me, it will get better. Find something to occupy your time to keep you from thinking about him.
2007-07-19 13:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋