how do you get over your ex ? i still like my ex its just that i dont know how to get over him. help me and i dreamed about him like 3 times in a row
2007-07-19 13:17:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my god. I totally feel your pain. I'm having the same trouble...but it is less now. It does take time. It also helps if you delete his number, throw out any pictures...clothes, or anything that you two shared. It's not worth saving because those things will constantly trigger unhealthy thoughts. You won't be able to open up and date. I'm not going to say "get another bf"....it takes time. Heal first...get to know people and allow yourself to see each new person for who he is and don't compare them to your ex. Also...i know what you mean...you're feeling like...i don't want to be thinking about him...but the thoughts pop in your head...or a dream occurs. deep down he's in your conscious. Just stay strong. don't contact him in any form. you'll be ok. good luck girl :-)
2007-07-19 13:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I have to say to you is, time. Be involved with friends and family more, hang out together more, be involved with new people and over a period of time, you will lose interest of your ex.
2007-07-19 13:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find the answer please forward it to me I'm going ThUr the same thing. The best advice I can tell you is not to listen to friends and date someone else you cant even go out because something is going to remind you of him. it all takes time give ur self the freedom to do some stuff you love to do take alone time away eventually you will forget or get back together.
2007-07-19 13:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by heaven 07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new fella to take your mind off of the ex. It works like a charm.
Good luck hun.
2007-07-19 13:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will help, find things to do with your time to keep you very busy, I'm going through a divorce after 30 years, now not wanting to take your thunder away, it sucks, I wish you the best.
2007-07-19 13:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one, ignore the one guy who insists on making a sexual comment about everything on here. and two, i found that going from one relationship to another one almost immediatly helped alot. cuase it got my ex off my mind and onto my new boyfriend. who i am still with.
2007-07-19 13:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my Gosh thats whats happening to me aswell. but ive been told that its gud idea to get a new boyfriend that you will live more than the first 1 and then you will forget all about it.
2007-07-19 13:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by felicity m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time. Mean while, try to keep yourself busy. Go and do things, new things, pld things, favorite things. That way your mind will be too occupied to think about him.
2007-07-19 13:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by Lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell yourself that it is their loss and they will never know what they are missing and then remember to never go backwards. after all you have been there and if didn't work why go back. Move forward and look for better and believe its out there. You will kick yourself if you go back.
2007-07-19 13:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by kerryjonjon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry when you need to cry - keep a journal of your feelings - that will help to resolve some of them. journal for yrs if you need to -- don't forget the new stuff in your life that is good - even if it is brief - keep adding good memories to your life - write them down so you remember them.
2007-07-19 13:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by cosmicwindwalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋