Males, if a female gives it up to you the first night are you reluctant to even pursue her. How long are you willing to wait? Details...
2007-07-19 13:12:42 · 15 answers · asked by RainbowBrite 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When she is ready and doesn't have to ask anyone else. Don't do it if you feel obligated or pressured ar even a little unsure. you will feel like you've given more then you've recieved if you don't do it when you are 100% sure you are ready.
There is no particular amount of time. Everyones different.
2007-07-19 13:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've waited over a year before. was truely in love with the girl and it would've been her first time and so we took it at her pace. usually i'll wait a month or so. if the girl gives it up the first night, i like it at the time....but if things start to get more serious, you sometimes wonder if she'd do that with you right away...would she do it with someone else that soon too? and how many times has that happened? but it really all depends on the guy and girl involved on how soon is soon enough.
2007-07-19 13:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by gymclasshero 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it all depends on the connection... some of the best relationships were started from sex on the first night... but u also dont want it goin around that u give it up the first night... i kno that i would want a woman to give it some time becuz the whole purpose is the chase... the chase is whats fun about it... but i dont want to be chasing too long becuz i'll lose interest...
2007-07-19 13:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by bigguu254 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the last 2 relationships Ive had they didn't last to long cuz the first night the chase was over. Tried to make them into lasting relationships but in my head I thought they were only easy pieces of ***. Make him wait alittle bit,at least the 3rd date..
2007-07-19 13:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by jg6277 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I believe that a female should wait until she's actually dedicated to someone, gets married, and performs this bond in a civil way without having to sneak around.
2007-07-19 13:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sakura H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This usually results in an awkward situation. You feel intimate, because you had sex, with someone you hardly know. Really difficult to start a relationship this way.
2007-07-19 13:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by LG 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't find anything wrong with it as long as you make him work for it. That just means he's doing something right. But if you just throw it at him and being easy, he may hold the right to call you a whore.
2007-07-19 13:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I gave it up the first time me and my man hung out we weren't even dating and now we are going on our fourth year together. You both will know when it is right to give it up.
2007-07-19 13:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by ~Kym~ ~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on your game. sometimes you should jump on him, sometimes you need to make him wait. generally, I would recommend doing whatever you want and won't care about him too much. you may lose whatever you do, but at least you have more fun when you do things at your speed.
2007-07-19 13:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I don't date or do relationships until AFTER the sex. Why would I buy a girl stuff and give her lots of attention and spend time on her unless she's already given me a down payment?
2007-07-19 13:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by Mike M 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋