Do you agree?

Question

Do you agree with "The more time you spend with your crush, the more you don't like them?"

Answer 1

It all depends. If you have a crush on someone and they turn out to be annoying or you find out things you did not know before about them it may lead you to dislike them or lose interest in them.

Answer 2

At some point yes. Basically, when you have get a crush on someone, it is mainly a physical attraction.

Once you get the chance to spend more time with your crush and get to know them better, if you realise you are nothing alike or that his/her personality is not very impressive- then thats when you start not to like them. However, when the opposite happens, you start falling in love with them.

Answer 3

Some times that happens but other times it intensifies like a mofo.

I have experienced both I got closer to this one gal I liked and it turned out I ended up hating her face lol.

Seriously sometimes people are not what you think they are, But man does it suck when you get to know a crush and they turn out to be more perfect than you ever thought possible...that sux because then the "crush" gets even worse.

So I gues I partially agree with your question...

Answer 4

Not if it is the right person, the relationship just grows..but you do need to spend some time apart now and then as absence makes you appreciate what you do have when it is around. Usually the things that draw you into the relationship, are the things that turn you off later if it happens. Weird.

Answer 5

NO. Then if that's true, you never had any deeper feelings for that person than merely infatuation. The true test of whether you really like someone is time. If you want to spend more time with them then you really like them. If you find yourself bored, distracted, numb, and want to be elsewhere than there with them, time to leave and find someone else to give your attention to. A crush is only a momentarily fling anyway. Usually based on superficial shallow variables.

Answer 6

No, I don't agree...what you're coming to terms with is the fact that your concept of attraction is incompatible with the reality you're facing. You looked at this person through rose-colored glasses; you had a romanticized notion of who they were, and as you got to know the real person they didn't match up with your fairy-tale version of them. That's okay, we've all had to learn that lesson, and I guess it's just your turn. But in the future you're likely to make more mature and substantial choices for yourself, and this type of stuff will be less likely to happen again.

Answer 7

i would say 95% of the time, thats false. i always like my crushes more and more as i spend time with them, but as a relationship progresses and fights occur, sometimes its too much to handle. only love can keep you guys together, thats why i'm glad i'm in the position i am with my boyfriend after all that we've been through. we know that we can get through almost anything life throws at us.

Answer 8

Definitely not. I think the opposite. My crush is my best friend, and I always have a good time with him, which makes me like him even more. Of course, its a secret though!

Answer 9

its ok to spend time with your crush but theres a limit,if you spend every second of everyday with them you'll get on eachothers nerves,you would have to spend some time alone,so in a way its not that the more time you spend together the more you'll dislike eachother you'll just get tired of eachother.

Answer 10

I disagree with that heartily.

I love my crush, and spending time with them only makes me love them more especially my crush right now.

I'm lovesick though because I probably won't see that person next year.