My boyfriend and my best friend are going to the same community college and my best friend wants to car pool with him.
First of all she always takes my boyfriend and flirts with them.
And second of all =all my boyfriends have dumped me for my best friends, only because they flirt a lot.
SHould i let my boyfriend carpool with her while I am an hour away at a university?
2007-07-19 10:54:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are just putting yourself, your relationship and your friendships at risk. If you have had this problem in the past stay away from it. Plus your true friends would not be flirting with your boy in the first place. they would not want to put themselves in that position for fear of upsetting or threatening there friendship with you. I would consider checking who your friends are and possibly rethinking the situation.
2007-07-19 11:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Adrenaline Junckie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, let them carpool. If your boyfriend and your friend hook up then #1 you know he wasnt right for you and #2 your friend isnt a true friend. Its a test!
2007-07-19 17:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Going to NY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that question, you need a new best friend and a new boyfriend.
2007-07-19 17:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah (the bear!) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess....trust him and hope this works out. If you say no, it might push them into something because it will seem "forbidden". I guess you have to trust them and hope that they respect you as a friend and girlfriend.
good luck
2007-07-19 17:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by matcoach2382 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your best friend. thats really all you can do.
tell her that you are feeling kind of cautious about them riding together and how much you like him.
tell her that you know she would never do anything to hurt you but you just want to hear her say it.
2007-07-19 17:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by love_always 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not a true friend if she flirts with your boyfriend.
2007-07-19 17:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by irreplaceable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it,. you can usually judge if he is the least bit attracted to your best friend. but if it makes you uncomfortable ask him to not. and if hes a good boyfriend, he wont.
2007-07-19 17:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by Becca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that he's yours and tell her not to even try to take him away from you because that has happened a lot!!
2007-07-19 17:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ (: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ..... just tell her to back away and she is not much of a friend to start with
2007-07-19 17:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to worry about them both, I'd dump them both!
2007-07-19 17:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Nancie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋