serious answers please.
i was wondering how old do you think a girl should be when she shaves her legs. just wondering lol.
AND.
how old do you think people should be when they have their first make out session? because some of my friends were WAY too young when they did. what would you consider too young?
also, i need some tips on kissing. like detailed tips. french kissing and making out, that sorta thing. what do you do with your tongue?where do you put your hands?
one more thing...how old were you when you had your first make out session/shaved your legs/how long do your make out sessions usually last and where is the best place to make out?
well i guess that was more than one last thing lol.
THANKS to everyone who answers and actually helps me!(Y)
2007-07-19 10:47:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I think a girl should start shaving her legs when she becomes uncomfortable with the hair on them. I began to shave my legs in sixth grade, because I guy I liked was like, 'Ew, wtf is with the hair on your legs? Don't you shave?' I think around fifth-sixth grade is the best, or whenever a girl begins to hate the hair and is just plain uncomfortable with it.
Making out.... like fourteen-seventeen perhaps? If you look at it in a deep way... when a girl gets her first period, mother nature says shes ready to pop out babies, but that doesn't work in our society. ;). I first made out a month ago, and hated it, because I hate the guy. My friend gave a ******* at eleven, and that is wayy to young, and I even consider it rape because the guy is older, and she was... too young to understand, you know?
When you make out, do what feels right. The guy shouldn't be pressuring (grrrr!). If you're outside the building, have him press you or press him against the wall, place your hands on his hips, rub them a bit up his chest, he'll prolly have his hands on your waist or ***. If you're on bed or on a lawn, lie on top of him, rub your hands against his chest, that sort of thing.
Lets see... I first made out at fifteen, shaved my legs when I was eleven, and my makeout sessions were about ten minutes long, on the lawn of the mall parking lot where everyone makes out. Don't do it on the bed, warning you, he'll only think it will lead to sex!
2007-07-19 10:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Snow White Queen 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can not answer you question about shaving your legs because I am not a girl.
However I am a Father of two girls. And as a Dad I will take a crack at your other questions.
First there is no set age where you should start "making out". What is right for one person may not be right for another. Do not be in a hurry. Your body may be telling you it is ready, but your emotions may not be ready. Making out for the first time and having sex for the first time only happens once in your life. You will never have another "First Time". Make it special. It is a gift that you should not give away lightly.
Take your time. If it does not feel 100% right, you are not ready.
As for instructions on kissing etc. There is really no way that someone can write instructions for that sort of thing. When the time comes you will quickly figure out what to do. Until that happens do not worry about it. Enjoy your life as a young lady while it lasts. It will be over way too quickly.
2007-07-19 11:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by Duck Danger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i personally think 11 or 12. thats how old i was. first makeout session, i say 14 or 15. too young is 11 or 12. i was 14 when i had my first. as for the tips, when your french kissing, all you do is each of you puts your tongue in the other persons mouth and well move it around. when your making out a girl should put her hands around the guys head, the back is nice. my makeout sessions usually last around arnywhere from 5 to 20 minutes, and as for where, anywhere is good but somewhere comfortable helps. like a couch or bed.
2007-07-19 10:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Carmel Lee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I started shaving my legs when I was 12. I have dark hair, so it was necessary to start young. I made out for the first time when I was 13. I think I was too young. I wish I had waited longer. As far as what to do with your tongue and where to put your hands, it's hard to describe. It's really something that you need to be shown. But honestly, if you have to ask all of these questions, you are too young. Wait a few years and these things will happen naturally. Best of luck.
2007-07-19 10:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well when I was younger (70's-ish) glam rock enabled men to get away with stuff like that. I can see Paul doing it but probably not Gene although he is a bit avaunt guard in the bedroom so who knows? Trust me, I know first hand that the men in Kiss are VERY hairy all over! Body builders often shave their entire bodies so it's not horrible if the body goes along with it for a purpose... (can you imagine the guys in the Mr. Olympia contest with hairy legs? I can't... THAT would be weird! but if you have some strange, weak, weirdo just doing it to do it, then yuck! It's like the men that shave their huevos because they actually believe that they will be more orally appealing if they do? Uh no, sorry... the little bastards are still repulsive!
2016-05-17 21:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by kelsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol....sorry just had the giggles for a sec..it's out of my system now.
but seriously....first with the shaving thing, because that's easier to answer.
I was about 12 when I first started shaving, but it depend on when you're hair really starts coming in. I started puberty a lil early, so I needed to start using deodarant and shaving the underarms a lil early. Looking back..i really didn't need to start shaving my legs when i did, but i figured i'd gotten my period and i'm a woman now, so i should shave....lol
just pay attention to your body and if your legs are getting caveman bushy, time to bust out the hardware....
Now...the harder question...Kissing, lol
i don't know how old you are, but i'm guessing young.
I don't want to advocate making out too early cuz it can lead to other stuff....But my first real makeout session was when i was about 16. I'd kissed boys before that...but never made out. And it was at his house, in his room and he was older and it went a bit too far...So please just take your time....don't get into an uncomfortable situation and if it's moving too quick for you and you want to stop...don't hesitate and be firm about it. I say this because I thought I should just go along with it even though I wasn't ready, and i thought i didn't have the right to say no or he would be mad...but i should have. So I'm just speaking from experience.
Well i hope any of this helps you out. Take care:)
2007-07-19 11:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by Scooby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
age of first make out session? 17.5
what would you consider too young? not in h.s. yet
age first shaved your legs? 13 i think. I went to a private school, and we had to wear uniform skirts, so I noticed when everyone else started.
how long do your make out sessions usually last? (back when i was in h.s) anywhere between a few minutes, to maybe 30 min. max. Anything longer than that is painful. Hello chapped lips!
where is the best place to make out? car, basement. we had a trampoline in our backyard. that was pretty cool. anywhere it was dark and not in public.
also, i need some tips on kissing. what do you do with your tongue? if you're not sure what to do, let him take the lead and just mimic back what he does (people tend to do to others what they like receiving). i think less is more. you can lightly touch tips of your tongue to his. swirl tongues around each other. nibble/suck on his lower lip (gently). little kisses all over...on the neck, shoulder, collar bone. gently suck/nibble on the ear lobe.
where do you put your hands?
start with you hand on his hip, run your hand up and down his back. if you're standing up, you can always slip a hand in his back pocket or a belt loop. on the back of his neck (you can massage it a bit if you want). i'm also a big fan of running fingers through the hair and gently tugging/twirling.
2007-07-19 11:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by HefeweizenHippie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I was 13, I think since I was becoming a teenager my mom thought it was time to show me what to do! I believe I was also 13 when I kissed a boy for the first time, I am going to have to say that girls start thinking about these things when they are in middle school, 6th-8th grade!
My first make out session was at my friends house, there were 6 of us and we were all paired up withour boyfriends watching a movie and it was dark! It was perfect!!!! I think everyone was making out with their boyfriend!
As far as kissing and how too, I can remember letting the guy start and I kind of just followed him, its really hard to explain, it will just happen and your lips will know what to do!
2007-07-19 10:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by katieanned 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
OK, a girl is old enough to shave her legs when she hits puberty and the hair gets darker. Or when she is able to handle a razor without cutting herself up.
Making out is OK in your teens, but don't start anything unless you are prepared to go further, that is all guys are wanting these days anyway. You need to figure out when it is time to stop BEFORE you get too far.
As far as tips in how to properly kiss, that one you will have to figure out on your own, since everyone likes different things. Let him lead you on what is happening and you should be fine.
The best make out place is where no one will catch you!
2007-07-19 10:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by harleychic 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
never have made out or kissed anyone yet i'm only 14. But I started shaving my legs when I was 12 1/2.
2007-07-19 10:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ (: 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋