im 13 and i was on yahoo pool playin a game with this 30 year old guy, and all of a sudden he ask me out! i tryed to remind him of my age but he wouldn't listen!! he started sayin' stuff and now he wants to meet. i'm not giving him my address wat should i do about this guy? hes being all love dovey and i don't want to talk to him but i cant tell him that because it would hurt his feelings and i can't stand to hurt peoples feelings. so im asking wat should i do??
2007-07-19 10:45:29 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's because we know that young girls are stupid. They have this idea that our feelings won't heal if they hurt us, and so out of compassion, they do really stupid things, that we really enjoy, but the girl gets hurt really bad. Now, I'm a Christian, the kind that actually believes the Bible, and I've never done this to anyone, but I'm also a fallen creature, so I know how guys think. I'm also familiar with some of the games they play. This is a very common one. Find a way to get rid of this guy. Call the cops if necessary. You are too young to give consent, so if he pursues you, then he wants to commit statutory rape. That's a crime. Or get your dad to buy a shotgun. I'll be 21 tomorrow, by the way. Anyway, hope you can get rid of him soon, before he hurts you. I know a sixteen-year-old who is pregnant right now because of a similar situation that went awry. Don't want that to happen to you, or worse.
2007-07-19 10:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by fuzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 13, you should not care about hurting the feelings of a stranger who is 30 years old.
You need to be respectful to friends and family, but this is a 30 year old stranger. And possibly a child predator.
It's a good start at learning to say "no". At 30, that person has weathered thro a lot and knows how to be gentle and knows how to be rough and also knows how to be sound vulnerable to rough you up. Don't let him play with your mind.
The primary reason is such older men gets fixated on the vulnerability of young children. They have horrible thoughts of crushing their emotions onto a vulnerable child. Many of them convinced themselves it is not wrong for them to do so. Don't let them enjoy such thoughts - not even a moment of it.
Tell him "NO!" and continue to enjoy your computer games with someone else. Get off the computer or IM or text your classmates. Go harrass your brother or your mom. You have a full life ahead of you. Don't let anything spoil your future.
After saying no, you would feel so bad. You might throw yourself onto a pillow in regret and wonder what you have just done. But enjoy feeling that "bad". Tell yourself "I am a good bad girl." Tell yourself you are a tough girl. You would feel you might have done a bad thing by hurting someone's feeling. But you yourself should learn what is right to do and therefore it is important for you to inherit such values from your family.
2007-07-19 11:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by miamidot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you don't really know this guy so it shouldn't matter if you hurt his feelings or not. He's a teen sex predator and he's just trying to aim for young girls who wouldn't reject him and tell anyone because he knows young girls are scared of what to do. He doesn't know you that well how can he say that he loves you?
The best thing to do is just block him from contacting you and ignore all his aim, emails, and etc. He can't get to you if he has no way to get a hold of you.Thats all you have to remember. Be smart, there are alot of rapists that came from the internet. Don't ever let anyone know your address or telephone # if you don't know the person sweetie.
2007-07-19 10:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by M@caroni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Some guys are do this for certain reasons. Maybe they're desperated enough to go out with some1 younger then them, or maybe the person is a pervert. I'm 13 also, and I think you should tell your parents, so they can tell your local police. It's a smart idea, in case maybe he has mental problems, or is a raspist or something.
2007-07-19 10:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As one who was molested by one of these guys, you should call the police.
Let the police have your ID and let them talk to him.
This guy has no business talking with you. In many states this could constitute a crime. You don't know what he would do and how many young people he would damage. So, it's best to take responsibility and hand this information over to the police.
2007-07-19 11:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he's making you uncomfortable...but you don't want to hurt his feelings?
He's a pervert.
Hurt his feelings.
If you don't want to deal with him directly, report him.
This is supposed to be about fun, about a supportive community...not some meat market for lecherous men who want to prey on children.
And don't worry so much about hurting people's feelings, either. Sometimes, you just have to stand up for yourself so that you don't stay a victim.
2007-07-19 10:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by SlowClap 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I WOULD NOT Talk ta him anymore i would ignore him i hate ta hurt people feeling also but i that to much your underaged and he knows that i hope you don't meet him or give him your address because you never kow you might be found in a river or body pieces in different states so please don't do it
2007-07-19 10:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by MZ.B J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about this schmuck's feelings! your 13! your ILLEGAL!!!!!!!! there are probably plenty of guys who would just play pool with you and that's it. but this guy went over the line. is there anyway you saved a copy of the transcript? you might want to send it to yahoo customer service and report him. I THINK but am not sure but you can probably block this guy from playing with you in pool????
2007-07-19 10:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a sexual preditor and you shouldn't be concerned about hurting his feelings. You can't hurt him, he is trying to get you to meet him so he can rape you!! Report him to the POLICE!!! Asking you out is against the law!!
2007-07-19 10:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurt that *** holes feelings hes trying to rape you and possibly kill you if you meet him DONT meet him just tel him to go away and of he doesnt make a new account or tell someone and you can get him arrested for attempted solicitation or a child or somethin like that
2007-07-19 10:48:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋