Just wondering what people thought of this as my friend and I were discussing this earlier. For instance if a woman just entered a relationship and was not having sex with the man right away, would she be comfortable giving or receiving oral instead? My friend said that she would, however, I said that if I was that intimate with someone, why not go ahead and have sex with them? To me, I'm not doing any of it with someone I do not care about. What do you all think?
2007-07-19 10:24:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I imagine that, on the woman's side, you'd have to feel pretty close to someone to have them shoot their load in your mouth.
As for me, I really don't want to do anything with someone I don't have feelings for. It'd just feel so empty.
2007-07-19 10:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex if fun but not intimate. One person has all the fun while the other does all the work. Sex is much more intimate because it's about two people enjoying each other.
If this guy is trying to get your friend to give him oral servicing and she already said she was uncomfortable having sex this guy sounds scummy or 14.
2007-07-19 10:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Gwenilynd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could would desire to disagree along with your chum. that's called oral intercourse for a reason. Many could say it replace into greater intimate and others will say that's not intercourse in any respect. I say that's not intercourse, even although that's intercourse, basically like anal intercourse is intercourse. human beings many times will say oral intercourse isn't intercourse, basically using fact they want to justify their strikes or sense that they don't look to be mendacity while they are asserting "we did not have intercourse." base line is, his unit replace into interior your physique for the period of oral intercourse. they are in a position to call it what ever they want if it makes them sense greater suitable, however the data are the data.
2016-10-22 02:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by dawber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its more personal and intimate than having sex...think about what your putting in your mouth! I have never given oral just for the hell of it....hell Ive slept with people and not given or received oral (all my choice of course). Kissing is intimate to me also!
2007-07-19 10:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by divers_godeeper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think oral is more intimate, since you actually 'taste' the other person, and if they got something funky to give you (disease, warts...), then it ends up in your face for the whole world to see...
2007-07-19 10:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well....there's sex and then there's SEX! ever heard of a f*ck buddy?? lots of ppl have them. especially those who r tired of relationships and or are tired of looking for the right one. everybody needs it and thosed who only wait for the "right" person before they give it up r just foolish. but to answer the question....oral, anal whatever....it's still all sex.
2007-07-19 10:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by john m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're not going to complain if you want to start out by giving us head ( we do enjoy that almost as much - or in some cases, even more!)
And we enjoy giving you head (we just like lots of reciprorcation). but we like looking at it, smelling it, tasting it...
But eventually, we have to stick in and make sweet music together.
2007-07-19 10:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women like getting it, dont mind giving it- but its not that intimate anymore
2007-07-19 10:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEPENDS IF YOU SWALLOW
2007-07-19 10:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by BIG DICK 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋