if you're attracted to a guy at first but than notice a flaw..like his nose is crooked or his tooth is chipped or something...do you think that would be enough to make you stop dating him?
2007-07-19 10:19:25 · 19 answers · asked by edward 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know a lot of you will say personality is all that matters, in which case, this question is not for you.
2007-07-19 10:21:32 · update #1
No, I find that small flaws are what make people individuals. I don't look at them as unattractive, just unique.
2007-07-19 10:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When you are younger you are looking for the perfect boy/girlfriend and are always on the lookout for any imperfections.
I remember when I was younger (not long ago ;-)) I could not find cute girls. I now see them everywhere!!! Not that I am actually looking because I am happily married, but one cannot help looking from time to time.
With time you will find out that you should be looking for the good things in people instead of their defects. Put all the defects and positive aspects of the person on a scale and see which way it tips.
If this defect is something physical you can actually overlook because you like the person beyond that, by all means stay with the guy ! Remember that the defects we have is what makes us unique ! With time everyone gets old and many years after-wards, you are only left with the person you fell in love with. If you find out that too late, you will have a sad life.
2007-07-19 10:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by corneliovaca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flaws are what make a person unique. u right personality isn't the only thing that matters. u have to be somewhat attractive so u'd be able to look at them. besides some things cute about u could out weigh the bad things. like a guy with beautiful eyes could have a chipped tooth. nobody would really notice because they'd only see his eyes
2007-07-19 10:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont personaly feel that is a reason to break up with someone. Try focusing on the things u love about that person. Maybe the way he treats u, Understands your feelings, Maybe he says or does something that drives u absolutly wild about him or maybe, maybe he has the most beautiful eyes u have ever seen or is very in touch with your emotions. Try to look at all the good things and focus on them with the one you love VS focusing on the flaws. No one is perfect sweety. Thats what makes us all unique. Best of luck to you and remember, Beauty really is skin deep.
2007-07-19 10:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by queenofghas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. if i find a guy attractive (obviously it means i think he looks good) and start to like him in the first instances..maybe after a bit i will notice more flaws (because i see him more) but i still think he is just as attractive. but i will think he is uglier if i grow to dislike him because of any particular personal reasons.
2007-07-19 10:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that someone who has something a little different about them is more attractive than someone who is perfect. As long as it is a chip tooth and not a mouth full of decaying teeth then that's fine!
2007-07-19 10:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by Chick stick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My ex bf had really skinny legs and a skin disorder that made them very dry ans patchy. I was definitely not attracted to them. But I never took much notice of them. When I looked at him, all I saw was his handsome smile.
2007-07-21 17:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. Everyone has a horrible flaw that they hate, so if they get dumped for it, won't that not teach them to accept themselves?
Put yourself in someone elses shoes....
2007-07-20 00:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by lil_munchie_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is perfect? Come on! Looks are important but I've never met any girl yet that I can honestly say hasn't got imperfections! Anyhow beauty comes from within!
Alan x
2007-07-19 10:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I love flaws. It's what makes a person who they are.
2007-07-19 10:26:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Gabbie ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋