A married guy in my office keeps flirting with me, he also asked me a couple of times if i want to have a few cocktails with him as a friend, of course i know what he wants, but it's just too entertaining at this point!!!! What do you think???
2007-07-19 08:53:44 · 38 answers · asked by Ms.Cutiepie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have no interest in him; if anything I find him morally disgusting, I just think that it's entertaining because he thinks he's so sleek!!!!!!
2007-07-19 09:00:38 · update #1
Once again, I WOULD NEVER GO OUT WITH A MARRIED MAN, i think he's an idiot!!!!!! but it's so funny how he thinks , he actually got a chance with me!!!!!
2007-07-19 09:03:19 · update #2
think about it and if you are sure then call him and then try to talk about the past
2007-07-22 18:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be old enough and mature enough to know the answer to this. no one should ever flirt with someone who is married. It's completely disrespectful and makes you look like a complete slut (for lack of a better word) I have no doubt that it's all in good fun but come on married people are off limits. You're tempting someone who is unavailable and could end up getting involved in something you don't want to be in. Think about how the wife would feel about it and put yourself in those shoes. Do you want to be the wife someday who's husband goes out and has cocktails with is female coworker and flirts with her all day? I don't think so
2007-07-19 08:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it! Flirting is fun! Obviously he enjoys it as much as you do. The cocktails will take it to the next level which is out of the office. If you know where you want to draw the line and are confident you're able to stand by it then go for it! Just be up front about where you stand on things and ask the same of him. Flirt on girlfriend!
2007-07-19 09:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by chatterbugg72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing with fire, girlfriend, do you think it will be so "entertaining" when his wife finds out, and totally goes after you! What if he has kids, you are probably known around the office as his flirt, maby word has already gotton back to his wife by some of his co-workers!
Think about what is going to happen if you continue with this and what has already happend, you have got to end this, it is going to get worse!
2007-07-19 09:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not try going 4 a cocktail in a group of friends? that way theres no real chance that anything could happen?
and i cant see y a bit of light, friendly flirting isnt ok, just as long as the barriers are set and no one crosses the line
2007-07-19 09:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a moral I live by as a woman.. that is this:
I would absolutely hate for my man to cheat on me, it hurts, we all know this. So I believe it is our duty as women not to betray eachother.
And I will never put another woman through that pain because of myself.
Thats just my opinion though. I think we need to stick together, dealing with men is hard enough as is.
2007-07-19 08:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by Coadster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life.................but I don't beleive it is a good idea. I don't know if you are married or have a relationship going on but how would you like it if your husband was messing with a woman at his place of employment? I think u need to chill out. And fast. You will not win in the end anyway.
2007-07-19 09:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirtation is harmless...but seeing as he's asked you out a couple of times, I would back off. He's a married man, and seeing as you know what he's after, it would be wrong of you to continue entertaining his behavior. Harmless flirtation is fine, as long as it doesn't head in that direction.
2007-07-19 08:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him once he filed his divorce papers you would consider it. Or just enjoy the attension and let him waste away his money. But don't sleep with him... If he got to the point of asking he probily already messed with some bad juju out there.
2007-07-19 08:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by a2z_alterego 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are heading for an *** whooping by what is called his wife. leave him alone because if he is married and hitting on you, what do you think he would do if you were his in the future? he would do the same thing to you. I would ask him if his wife knows what he is up to and then watch his face and watch his flirting stop.
he is a scum bag
2007-07-19 08:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are playing a dangerous game. There are other people involved that could really get hurt. If you want entertainment, rent a movie, don't screw with people's lives
2007-07-19 08:58:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋