My cousin really likes this guy. She messed up with him, saying all of these horrible things to him and wondering why he wouldn't talk to her. This went on for three weeks before she begged me to talk to him for her.
He asked who I was, and I simply said "Candice's baby cousin". This was all on MSN, and I constantly have a display picture of me. After that, I asked why he was ignoring her. He called her crazy, annoying, and that she had no chance. He started commenting on how pretty I was, randomly and started asking all these questions.
Now that we know eachother quite a bit, I feel myself liking him a bit. I know my cousin saw him first, but is there any chance I can make it so I'm not the horrible one?
She also has been all over my boyfriends since I was eleven. ): She wanted to go out with the guy who hit then quit her THIRTEEN YEAR OLD COUSIN. I know that I can't trust her, and I've always treated her like my sister.
Now what do I do?
2007-07-19 08:51:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not eleven anymore. =| I turned fourteen on Tuesday, and she's sixteen next month. I'm not really a "baby" anymore, but I'm still alot smaller than her.
2007-07-19 08:58:19 · update #1
She obviously doesn't care that she's hurt your feelings in the past by going out with all your ex's, so why should you give a second thought to going out with someone who's said that she has "no chance" of getting back together with?
Although at the same time, I'd be careful of this guy becuase he may just be using you to get back at her. But if you feel as though his actions/words are genuine, go for it.
2007-07-19 08:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 wrongs don;t make a right. Leave him alone as he is not that great of a person to hit on you while you are speaking on someone else's behalf.
I would leave it alone and if you can't, make sure you let your cousin know ahead of time any plans you may have because if not, regardless of what she has done in the past, you will be looked at In a negative way and its not worth it. there are millions of guys out there.
2007-07-19 15:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Frank L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, people aren't "property". Secondly, 11 year olds shouldn't have boyfriends. You have alot of growing up to do.
2007-07-19 15:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want to be as bad as her, i can tell, but technically he's not hers's. he doesn't like her and he does like you. you should talk to her about this. tell her how she messed up and maybe you could give it a try. tell her how it looks that he wont forgive her. plus it would be a whole lot worse if they were dating still...
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2007-07-19 15:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by MEliSSA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to do whatever you want anyway. Why ask? Are you looking for some justification?
2007-07-19 15:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by aj's girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her she has no chance, talk to him and tell him to tell her to stop bothering, him, after that, try to build up a relationship.
2007-07-19 15:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone and find someone else
2007-07-19 15:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by college gurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart tells you to do.
2007-07-19 15:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend she doesnt like him an she doesnt exist. then do wat feels right.
2007-07-19 16:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsey Loo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋