We broke up two weeks ago. I miss her and want her back. I know she feels something for me because we were together for 3 years. Has anyone gone through this situation and has anyone gotten their ex back that can give me advice. Thanks
2007-07-19 08:41:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's over. Save yourself a lot of emotional baggage and realize this to the very core of your being. You will be freed to pursue other women and get a better relationship going.
(if she broke up with you it's REALLY over - I promise!)
FP
2007-07-19 08:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep...had this same exp. And unfortunately for you, there's only 2 options here and they're both bottom lines!
Leave...I know you say you care about her...but if you broke up once...9 out of 10 times bro, it's going to come back again...it sucks...but it will. She won't let you forget it.
Or, just tell her. And be straight forward, no beating around the bush nonsense. Tell her how you feel, what you think about the situation, and what you want from her now. If she has to think about it...just walk away. I mean, the bottom line here...is what? Your looking for a life partner, right? If so, and nothing is getting communicated, than leave. She's not the one.
Suck it up...pull your pants up and move on bro...be realistic here...don't try to keep a rocky relationship going. It's only going to cause you heartache and sleepless nights. Again, I know you want her back...but that doesn't mean it's the right thing to do. Good Luck bro!
2007-07-19 15:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need an excuse it's irretrievably over, I'm afraid.
A healthy break up would be where you can remain friends, see each other in the company of others and not be jealous or hurt.
You may want her back but no amount of manipulation will get her back OF HER OWN WILL.
You want her back of her own will, pal. Nothing else is worth it.
Don't expect her to tell you why she broke up. She can't. If she hasn't been able to tell you the niggling things that led to the break up, she really can't tell you why she made the monumental decision to break up.
Move on.
Learn.
Keep on keepin' on
2007-07-19 16:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by rhapword 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is call her and talk to her and tell her that you love and you want to be back with her.because if you do that she might want you back.ask her if she wantss you back.ask her if she wants to have you hugging her again.romanticly.tell her that you want to get back together and you miss her alot.she might take you back because she she missed you also.but that might depend on what you broke up about.if it was because you cheated on her,then she isnt going to take you back no matter how much you plead.if you broke up because you to thought you need some space and you got mad at her and you didnt mean it,then she will take you back.aslo what the last girl just said,an ex might not be an ex forever.you might get back together.
2007-07-19 15:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nairobi Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you forgotten already why you broke up. Think about it. An ex is an ex is an ex forever!
2007-07-19 15:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is that you have to start the conversation and be honest with her and how you really feel wehat ever happens she will tell you how she really feels and tell you what can happen between you both.
2007-07-19 15:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it helps if she want to get back together, Otherwise your SOL
2007-07-19 15:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by davey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋