this guy i have reconnected with recently (who i have known for 5 years now) is always asking me to stay over his house. He knows Im a virgin, and I won't give it up that easily. He hasn't told me he's attracted to me, but I can tell he is by the way he always wants to get pysical with me. Lately, he has been the one to call me more ofter, where as before I was the one calling. (I stopped calling as often b/c he told me he was talking to other girls too but not sleeping with then). What does he want from me exactly?
2007-07-19 08:04:00 · 10 answers · asked by thatwasme_then87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we had gone to a party of my cousins and i found out my ex boyfirend was there also. I didnt know that they knew eachother until he told me. I had told him that the guy he pointed out was my ex. I had said it again without thinking and he said, "I KNOW." Like he was mad or irritated by it. I noticed that he talked with everyone there except my ex.
2007-07-19 08:06:31 · update #1
Whatever the case may be...
Don't give it up unless you're sure you'll NEVER regret giving it up to him.
Maybe he does really like you... but it's not absolute.
See... he still talks to other girls (probably the way he is with you) and that's never a good sign... it can cause confusion especially if he likes more than one person at a time.. In a case like this.. there's always that chance that someone's gonna get hurt..real bad.
What does he want from you exactly? It's unclear. it could be sex.. it might not be just sex.. right now.. it's the dating game. Even though he spoke to everyone but your ex.. who knows that the game really is? Please be careful. :)
2007-07-19 09:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rogee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody knows for sure what he wants. And, rest assured, he's not sure what you want from him either. What we do is that he's attracted to you. There is nothing wrong with him wanting to get physical with you. I'm assuming he's young, which means his hormones are probably through the roof. That, in and of itself, is fine.
It also shouldn't be an issue if he wants to talk to other girls; as long as you're not his girlfriend.
So instead of trying to figure out what he wants, first figure out what you want. Do you want him to be your boyfriend? Do you want to just date him and be able to see other people?
Next, date him. Get to know him. You'll have to deflect some of his physical advances if you're aren't ready to mount him yet, but that's ok. If he's worth keeping around he'll understand your concerns with sex and will respect and appreciate you for them.
2007-07-19 15:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by The Captain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so concerned with what he is thinking? You know your mind and what you want for yourself, so there is no problem. This guy wants sex from you. Come on girl, men like the chase, and once they have it they get bored and find someone else to play around with. When you spend time with a guy and have to wonder what he is thinking, what his intentions are then, he is the wrong kind of guy for you. Guys like this play games with women to get laid or to look mysterious, but the truth is, they are only playing with you to stroke their ego. What I would like to suggest for you is to not spend the night over there any more. Don't look at what he says to you, look at his actions. By looking at his actions, you will see the truth. And, btw, wise up and be smart when it comes to men. Good luck.
2007-07-19 15:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rogue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants to get you alone. Why else would he want to get alone with you? This guy thinks that he is going to be the straw that broke the camel's back and you are going to give in with him. If this isn't the case then I am way off, but that is how it seems from what you wrote. I'd be very careful with him. He seems a but sketchy to me.
2007-07-19 15:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex. That is what he wants you for. Don't give in. Once you do, you will never hear from him again. He will probably tell your ex if you do, and that will make things bad between the two of you. Dump him now.
2007-07-19 15:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by magix151 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think that he just wants to be your first. Probably all it is. If his interest was in you and you alone he would not be chatting with the other girls. Move on!
2007-07-19 15:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by lacelessrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to be with you if he is like that around your boyfreind cuase if it was just sex he would not really have cared if there werent feelings there
2007-07-19 15:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing games,,,give it up and he'll have gotten what he wanted and will move on
2007-07-19 15:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants some bootie
2007-07-19 15:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by Heidi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex.
2007-07-19 15:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋