I am not sure on what to do.
Ok i am currently on a long vacation (5 week) and therethis girl that i like but i think she just likes me as a friend. we kinda had this thing goin to where we were friend and hoped to be more than friends one day but it never happened. I mean this went on for a few weeks and then we both got really busy with finals and stuff and hardly ever talked so that whole thing just kinda stopped. I mean i talk to her almost everyday now that i am on vacation and that is more often then i did when i was still in town. Do you think that she could like me? I am think that i am gonna talk to her about this when i get back into town. i cant give too much detail here or some one will figure this whole thing out. email me to talk more about this it would be greatly appreciated.well my main question was is do you think that she would want to try the dating thing or do you think that she would rather stay friends or be friends and see what happens or what?
2007-07-19 07:45:08 · 8 answers · asked by Big A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-07-19 08:14:44 · update #1
for me,,it depends on the way you are talking to each other recently...does she talk to you the way she talks to a buddy? or do feel that she makes you feel special?...the best thing for now is keeping the communication ongoing so that when you get back in town you would talk to her personally...trying to wonder the meaning of your recent talks or trying to read between the lines makes everything more confusing,,don't ask for a meaning in everything she says.....wait till you get back to talk to her because when you'll ask her on the phone you might freak her out that she may feel awkward when you return..besides you can't see her reaction if you asked her on the phone....wait till you get bak and set up a meeting with her...talk to her and ask what's on her mind about your relationship right now...good luck!
2007-07-19 14:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫HiKaRu_ShiDoU♫♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confuse yourself with that whole "just friends" thing. You're talking on the phone everyday from out of town. Something's going on between you two! Yes, ask her for a date. Say "Hey, when I get back into town let me take you to dinner." Be a man. If she says no then find another girl.
2007-07-19 14:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say the best option would be talk to her. Hang around a bit and just talk with her. When a woman has a liking for you, its pretty hard to miss. If all else fails, just ask her. I find being upfront is a lot better than running around in circles. Good luck!
2007-07-19 14:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find out is to ask her out. If you're too young to have a driver's license, then you're probably too young to have a serious relationship though. Don't stress about it, and good job for focusing on finals. Those are more important.
2007-07-19 14:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her and its seems like she likes you too then what is the harm of asking her out or at least doing something together after you get back into town.
2007-07-19 14:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Heidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soon as you're back in town, talk to her man, pursue her. If she's really all that, tell her how you feel and ask her out!
2007-07-19 14:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking to her on a friendly basis, and then when you get home ask her if she wants to "hang out" and see if you get any signals from her then.
2007-07-19 14:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ask her and find out. you just might get a new girlfriend.
2007-07-19 14:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Torturing Taylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋