Ok, my boyfriend of 4 years has a real bad mouth. So when he's upset, he will cuss anyone! Recently, he cussed at me in front of my family. I felt very disrespected and ashamed. He's always been this way and sometimes I cuss at him as well. But never in front of his family or friends. We have not talked to each other in a week and im wondering if I should just leave him alone completely. Should I dump him?
2007-07-19 07:09:28 · 24 answers · asked by Nik 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should dump him, unless this is how you want to be treated for the rest of your life. If after 4 years he doesn't respect you, trust me he never will.
You can obviously do better than that guy anyways.
2007-07-19 07:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥itsme♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say really think hard about your relationship and what you want out of life. Do you really want to be involved with someone that you have cussing matches with? This is only a sign of how things will get worse. Now your family, next in public. You should have more respect for yourself and for the person your with and vise versa.
2007-07-19 07:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you bf does not know how communicate. well if you really care you should tell him what did hurt you a lot. do not tell him he is wrong coz this is a perception not a truth until he realizes it. and you really care then find a way for him and you change your idea of what is acceptable behaivor into oh so charming non-stop wanna talk with you and everyone cant leave you along behaviour. its just him its you too. he does this coz you allow it and probably say little yourself. so as his girl you teaching the wrong way. time to get an attitude adjustment huh. 1 more thing verbal abuse is next 2 physical its like working up the courage to hit you. so if he will not change with you then its for goodbye tears. and I hate those so much but not as much physical abuse.
2007-07-19 07:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by l33nix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some anger problems. Ok. Here's the thing: do you really love him? If so, I'd say give him a chance... provided he is sorry and willing to get some therapy to fix his problem, and provided he DOES get that help. Otherwise, I'd dump him like a truck full of dirt. It is not worth it. It starts with what he did to you in front of your family, and odds are it gets worse and worse.
2007-07-19 07:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this was a one time thing then no...but what did u do to make him yell at you, if you did nothing let him know how that he pissed u off yelling at you and embarassing you in front of your family, if he does this constintantly then dump his *** you can always find some one who will treat you with respect.
2007-07-19 07:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should dump him and leave him alone completely. He obviously has some anger issues that he needs to take care of. You deserve much better!
2007-07-19 07:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, hell yes! You don't deserve to be treated that way. You shouldn't be distrespected with words or in any other form. You should tell this guy that you are sick and tired of being disrespected with his hurtful words, tell him that if it doesn't stop then you are gonna leave him, if it doesn't stop, put your foot down and tell him he blew it and you are gone like the wind. Good Luck Honey!
2007-07-19 07:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie do me a favor and dumphim for good i mean he disrespect u in front of ur family and u r not sure yet??? cmon girl u deserve better
2007-07-19 07:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by sydneysredhair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the only reason you have? If it is, then you are looking for an excuse to dump him, so do it already.
If this isn't the only fault he has, then why did you stay with him for 4 years?
2007-07-19 07:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by George P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should dump him...that wasn't right when he cussed at you in front of your family. That shows, he doesn't have any respect for you.
2007-07-19 07:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by Kim W 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋