on the monday jsut past i asked a girl out for a couple of drinks at the local pub jsut so i can get to know her better outside of work because i want more than a freindship with her.
she gladfully accepted and i stupidly didnt get her number because i didnt have my mobile at the time (cell phone) so i told her to meet me at the pub for 8 oclock she said she would and i aint seen her since, i do think she really likes me im jsut worried that tomorow ill turn up and she wont be there.
is there anyway i can stop worrying about this??
2007-07-19 07:08:45 · 11 answers · asked by GG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be positive about it, and think abou it this way
if she doesnt show up, the more flirting you can do with any other girls there;)
2007-07-19 07:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rule #1 - Do not mess with girls at work. It's just a bad experience.
The way you can stop worrying about it is to meet another girl. Just forget about her and go talk to another girl, take her out, etc. That's what I do when I have "a girl" on my mind.
You can also improve your inner confidence/beliefs so that something like this won't happen again. Yeah, you can come to Yahoo answers and read a few posts, but until you get to the root of the matter, you won't solve the problem.
I recommend reading some of posts such as the ones I listed as my sources. I've been reading there, and I've learned a lot. It's just a great place to ask questions, etc. it seems.
Good luck to you.
2007-07-19 14:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by sosuccessfulforum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's "just" (not jsut, but at least you were consistent and spelled it the same each time...lol!) and you'll find out tomorrow what's going to happen. I understand your concern but there's not really anything you can do about it so try to put it out of your mind until you get there...if she shows up, great! If not, then have a few drinks and enjoy your evening anyway.
Good luck!
2007-07-19 14:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah there is a way....JUST STOP! This is a regular girl OK? She's not bringing you a cure for cancer or the winning lottery numbers, she's coming to have a drink. And if she flakes on you then forget her, do you really want someone who will let you down? Come on man.......stand up straight and act like you have a pair.
2007-07-19 14:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by jsmo555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't stop worrying about it till tomorrow.
Maybe you should hit the pub tonight for a couple of drinks so you'll for get about it till then...:)
2007-07-19 14:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is wait. If she likes you, she will be there. If she doesn't show then she either isn't into you (which is ok becuase you'll find someonw else you like just as much who is) or maybe she just forgot? Just play it cool, everything will reveal itself in time. Good luck!
2007-07-19 14:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep ur head up and dont worry about it..hopefully she will turn up and if not well u know she aint the one.....but more likely she will since she told u that she'll be there..good luck
2007-07-19 14:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by *S!LL!3G00B3R*TTC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea if anything will happen, because I'm not her, I don't think I know her, and I have no way to get inside her head.
It's only a day, buddy.
See what happens tomorrow.
2007-07-19 14:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by Miyabi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you went about it wrong asking her to meet you at a pub.You should have got her number then went to pick her up or something
2007-07-19 14:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! Just have to wait and see- don't be so worried if you so much eagerness you will probably end up turning her off.
2007-07-19 14:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some deep breaths, i mean, if she told u to meet u, and she gladfully accepted, she will come, believe me :D
good luck mate
2007-07-19 14:13:19 · answer #11 · answered by nebulat0r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋