What to do?

Question

Ok well if anyone knows my old questions they will understand me.
Anyway I have been dating the same guy from the party that date i got too drunk. Is been a month now but things has been going down hill. I know is my fault becasue i was acting like a B* I broke up twice with him over stupid things and now he is acting like she doesn't care about me at all.
The first time that happen was i broke up with him because i was angry and he was very upset about it. after talking to him we decided to make things work and i broke up with him a week later and i ask him back out but it look like he didn't really wanted to go back since he told me that i can't play with him like that so now we really haven't talk on to each other. I mean we are still going out but we haven't talk on the phone as much. Before we talked on the phone for hours and at least 2-3 times a day now we talk 5-15 min every other day and i'm doing all the calling what should i do?? should i stop calling him ?

Answer 1

If you broke up with me every time you got p**sed, then two days later want to see me again, I would eventually tell you "thanks but no thanks" too.

Stop calling him, find someone else, and LEARN from this one...:)

Answer 2

First off stop being such a immature premadonna. Who knows whether or not your relationship was going to work out after all you doomed it from the very beginning. If any partner in a relationship is willing to throw in the towel over a minor argument and in your case twice in a week then it shows the other partner how much you truly value the relationship. He now sees you in a different light and you have noone to blame but yourself. Use this experience to help you in future relationships because trust me that kind of relationship is only considered normal in middle school.

Answer 3

Unfortunately, some people (guy or girl) don't like playing games. It sounds as if he's tired of trite arguments and petty issues. Sadly, that turns off men greatly, once they are "tired" of a thing.

Sorry to hear things didn't work out too well, but to protect your feelings, I would stop calling. If he's still interested, he'll give you a call and you can go from there. Otherwise, it sounds like he's already emotionally detached. Good luck.

Answer 4

You can't keep breaking up over stupid reasons and expect him to keep taking you back. It's like your playing some kind of game. I'd suggest you and him have a heart to heart talk about what each of you want. Then take it from there. Not to be ugly but if your old enough to be drinking you should be a little more mature than you seem.

Answer 5

I did the same thing.A person will only let you get away with that so many times before they are forced to just give up and move on.All you can do now is let him or her know how you feel and then back off.Waiting is the worst thing but you have no choice now because the more you push the further away he or she will be.

Answer 6

Sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder. If you keep calling he may just get irritated. If you don't call, he may wonder why and actually have a chance to miss you. Be careful though, you are also taking the chance that he won't and you need to be prepared for either way. Good luck.

Answer 7

Stop calling him and see if he calls. I must say though when a realtionship isn't new and the "honeymoon" stage is over and you get more comfortable, the less you will talk on the phone. If he has not called at all I would move on.

Answer 8

YES -- stop calling him don't chase him! let it be for a few days and if he doesn't call, or does and is still aloof -- you need to sit down and officially break it off

Answer 9

sry, sry, sry, dis question id WAY 2 long.