In my freshman year, I met this great guy and he was my first real high school boyfriend I guess you could say. We ended badly because he just up and began another relationship. Five years later, I'm over it and all set and ready to be his friend again. This was all going well until he told me that he loved me and felt that we were destined to be together. He said that he wanted to know the woman that I've become. I have no objections to getting to know him, but I've just began a new relationship with a girl that I truly love. I feel like if I were to get to know him now that he's 'supposedly' grown up, I might fall for him and risk jepordizing my current relationship; but I do want to be his friend again. I'm so lost and confused on how to handle this the right way. Can somebody please help??
2007-07-19 06:57:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Miss you did a great job telling us. No just use those same words and tell him.
2007-07-19 07:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by mikeae 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well take a step back
he reveal his true feelings for u
i feel there s a part of u that wants to test these water but yeah u r in a current relationship
so my suggestion is to be his friend test him out
worst thing in life u can do is not give it a try
because if u dont it will be haunting u forever
trust me i have a few of those haunting me
and some of my x's confess it to me too that they made mistakes of not saying or doing anything when they were in the situation
2007-07-19 07:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by simple J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like wanting to have the cake and eat it too! Good luck..
2007-07-23 01:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋