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2007-07-19 06:42:46 · 22 answers · asked by max m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a fan of the nice guys, myself.
2007-07-19 06:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are the ones who end up married to the girls that tried to be with bad boys and couldn't change them.
I notice that so many girls say they like the nice guys but for some reason always seem to be dating the bad boy types.
2007-07-19 06:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a nice guy that's also cool at the same time. "nice guys" can get love. the people who think they're too cool and show off are just people who are going to have bad relationships. if i were you, i'd wait for the right girl instead of getting a gf that would just treat me badly.
2007-07-19 06:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame your intimacy problems on women. That sounds harsh I know but I went through this and came to this conclusion. There are plenty of girls out there who value themselves enough to be with guys who treat them well. You, most likely, always seem to be drawn to girls who like jerks. This is you. No one else. The girls who like nice guys just turn you off for some reason, right? They don't seem cool to you.
Now, just because you have intimacy problems doesn't mean you're a bad guy. You just need help, like everyone does sometimes, in overcoming your issues. Ask yourself questions like why am I so repulsed by girls who are attracted to me? Believe me, this is a soooo much better spent effort than trying to find that girl who likes bad boys and trying to convert her into someone who likes nice guys! You will always fail with the latter, as trying to change someone else almost never works.
The only person you can change is you. And don't try to be a bad boy. Try to be yourself, with all the uglyness and goodness and everything. Someone will like you for it.
Learn to like yourself. You can do this with therapy or sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings with someone you trust. You may see that you are not so wierd after all. That you're very much like every other human on the planet. And that it's OK.
2007-07-21 13:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls might want to go and have fun with the "bad boys", but in the long run they do want a nice guy. I have dated my share of bad guys, and am marrying a "nice guy" in a couple of months, and I couldn't be happier!
2007-07-19 06:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by nichole9719 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just think that bad guys are taking over whether we like it or not but keep looking cause there are girls out there that are looking for nice guys
2007-07-19 06:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman that usually do that are just looking for adventure, eventually they will settle down with a nice guy, since the bad boy will always want to be bad, he isn't the type to settle down.
2007-07-19 06:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by George P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like nice guys but they like the bad boy image. it's all in the look
2007-07-19 06:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by re 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally love nice guys, guys that are "bad" just to get attention drive me nuts. Keep being a gentleman and you'll find someone.
2007-07-19 06:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Ana Banana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nice guys eventually do get some love,.
the old saying Nice Guys Finnish Last
...... well at least they get to finnish the Bad Boys usually wind up as thugs, or behind bars just give it time
2007-07-19 06:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by hailey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋