2007-07-19 06:25:55 · 8 answers · asked by Shanterra Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do young women and girls these days call themselves females? You call an animal a male or a female. You're a young woman. Don't stand for being called anything else.
Not all men are unexpressive of their feelings, just insecure ones who think it is a sign of weakness.
2007-07-19 06:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by CNJRTOM 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Different people express their feelings in different ways. Not everyone uses words.
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Dr. Gary Chapman, Christian counselor and author of "The Five Love Languages", writes about the importance of being able to express love to your spouse in a way that your spouse can understand. He calls this type of communicating using the five love languages.
Chapman's Five Emotional Love Languages:
Words of Affirmation
This is when you say how nice your spouse looks, or how great the dinner tasted. These words will also build your mate's self image and confidence.
Quality Time
Some spouses believe that being together, doing things together and focusing in on one another is the best way to show love. If this is your partner's love language, turn off the TV now and then and give one another some undivided attention.
Gifts
It is universal in human cultures to give gifts.They don't have to be expensive to send a powerful message of love. Spouses who forget a birthday or anniversary or who never give gifts to someone who truly enjoys gift giving will find themselves with a spouse who feels neglected and unloved.
Acts of Service
Discovering how you can best do something for your spouse will require time and creativity. These acts of service like vacuuming, hanging a bird feeder, planting a garden, etc., need to be done with joy in order to be perceived as a gift of love.
Physical Touch
Sometimes just stroking your spouse's back, holding hands, or a peck on the cheek will fulfill this need.
Determining Your Own Love Language
Since you may be speaking what you need, you can discover your own love language by asking yourself these questions:
How do I express love to others?
What do I complain about the most?
What do I request most often?
Speaking in your spouse's love language probably won't be natural for you. Dr. Chapman says, "We're not talking comfort. We're talking love. Love is something we do for someone else. So often couples love one another but they aren't connecting. They are sincere, but sincerity isn't enough."
2007-07-19 13:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy whether he expresses his feelings. I personally like to express my feelings to a girl I'm dating
2007-07-19 13:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Miguel Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st reason: the guy is too shy to express it to the girls
2nd reason: the guy need to know the girl more before they express their feelings.
3rd reason: the guy have a hard time thinking of how to express to girls.
2007-07-19 13:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because women love to chase a man and if a man allow his feeling to be express she will take him for granted and act like ok i got him already i dont need to continue being on my toes
thats the mistake women do and thats why men dont express there feelings like that
because its a sign of weakness for men and women know that and take full advantage of it
im not saying all women do this but one bad apples ruins it for everyone
2007-07-19 13:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by simple J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because you never stayed in a relationship long enough for him to express them... women "fall in love" faster than men.. it takes time for us to open up to you.
2007-07-19 13:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by Marty B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they don't think its very macho
2007-07-19 13:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by cherryblossoms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do....women just don't f'in listen
2007-07-19 13:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋