ppl mention about how sex is an sacred act but ive taken some thought to it... when your w/ someone special and u deside to have sex its like a bond that sticcs the relationship closer right... but wut about when you break up and find some1 else who is "special" u make dat sacred act again?? i mean too me it makes no sence... i love women n i do enjoy sex but i sure dont consider it a sacred act... what are you opinions...
2007-07-19 06:24:39 · 25 answers · asked by Michael E. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it is not. However, once you make a public commitment to be true to one person - in other words, take marriage vows - then it does become the most powerful signal of that commitment, and that's as close to sacred as anything we mortals ever experience.
You can keep on enjoying sexual relations with willing women so long as you're both honest that it's not a binding act; that by so doing you are not committing yourselves to each other exclusively. Whatever you do, don't lie to the women in order to keep on screwing them. That can be dangerous; many women have rather unforgiving friends, who can put you in a world of hurt if they perceive your behavior as abusive...like me, for instance: I catch wise to your sticking it to one of my grown daughters while you're sticking it to her in the sack, and I'll quite literally skin your slimy self - I've had practice!
2007-07-19 06:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is simply a biological act. The orgasm has the same effect on the brain as taking a very weak heroin dose. In the old days before entertainment technology was this good, sex was rated higher than now for being sacred because there was nothing else to do. While sex is still very fun, it doesn't mean as much since there is so many other things to see and do.
2007-07-19 06:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've done the one night stand thing, f**k buddies and sex in long term relationships, and to me it's been no different in any of them, sex is just that, sex. I'm the type of person who can separate sex from love and emotions. However, that's not to say that when I am in a relationship I cheat, I don't, but I also don't view it as something sacred or special, it's important to me and if I want it, then I'll get it, suppose I have a 'male' outlook on the whole thing. *waits for all her thumbs down*
2016-05-17 11:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sacred to an extent, that you should have it with someone you really care for. You can care for several people in your lifetime, and that is fine. But it's more of a "dont have sex with anyone and everyone thing". Which is how a lot of people are these days. Kids having sex, when they aren't prepared to deal with consequences, and aren't even capable of seeing how enjoyable and special sex is, that is WRONG! It's sacred for some, should be sacred to many.
2007-07-19 06:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by .:*:.mommy 2 joe-joe.:*:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sacred sounds so religious. For those who are religious then fine. But really sex is something that should only be shared with few people. So you have to decide how much you want to share with a person. You should use sex just to make your relationship closer. Because if you can't feel close with out sex then chances are you will break up soon anyway. Sex tends to make relationships more complicated in ways because of the feel good feelings you when you do it. Then when that moment goes away and there are other issues it causes confusion and alters your perspective of what your real issues are. Save it for those who are worthy.
2007-07-19 06:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it is pretty much a common act, so I don't see what's so sacred about it. Of course, you shouldn't give it all away to any and every one, but though it may have been a while ago, it doesn't seem very sacred anymore.
2007-07-19 06:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Brit B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is its not a sacred act but i wouldnt go around doing it with everyone i would only do it if i was in a long relationship but it is different for everyone some move faster than others and decide to have sex on their first date others wait a while and others wait till they get married
2007-07-19 06:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you find the right woman, it will be sacred because you won't want her to have sex with anyone else and you as well will only want sex with her...so sex is sacred if you really LOVE the person your having sex with...if you have it recreational expect it to feel that way.
2007-07-19 06:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are just talking about the physical act then it is just a biological release used for pleasure and to produce children. But when it is coupled with love and respect for a soul mate and the desire to pleasure the one you love is Paramount for both parties then it is worthy of being thought of as sacred. That is combining the spiritual as well as the physical and it attains a higher level of fulfillment culminating in the production of a spiritual energy that approaches that of pure bliss for both parties.
2007-07-19 06:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sacred??? I've never heard that before. I guess for people who consider it solely for reproduction only it might be considered sacred. Do I think that? No. I enjoy it and the pleasure it brings but I'm certainly not going to worship it.
2007-07-19 06:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋