She's an older woman as well, 40ish. I'm very attracted to her. What should I do? Should I compliment her, or just ignore it? She's very beautiful. I've never been attracted to an older woman before. I'm 19.
2007-07-19 05:59:39 · 18 answers · asked by sspence966 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend...I'm 25 and for whatever reason, have been on a major swing for older women. I always have been, but only recently have I had the confidence to actually go after them. I'm not sure what it is that drives me...maybe the sophistication, maybe the idea that they seem to truly know what they want, or maybe just a change from feeling like I always have to take control with younger women. In any case, embrace your attraction.
That said, you're only 19 and you could be venturing into dangerous waters. Chances are, your professor is not going to even consider having sex with you (although I've heard plenty of stories where they will). But, if you really want to explore the opportunity, you are her student. No professor in her right mind is going to turn down a student who "would like to meet with her and discuss some topics from class". I say, run with it. She'll take you up and if she's giving off signs of attraction, take it from there. Be a man. That's what every woman wants...whether he's younger or older. But step up to the plate and accept the challenge you've already given yourself.
2007-07-19 06:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Phenom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to her office after class under the guise of having some class related questions and then compliment something about her jewelry or office and start some small talk and see if shes comfortable taking it to a personal level. Then when youre about to leave just say. Prof Smith thanks for the help. Shell say of course its my job blah blah come back any time. Then you say I enjoyed chatting with you as well. We should have a drink sometime and continue our conversation. Shell say yes or no way you little teenybopper of a man. Youll get an answer. If she says yes then you can say terrific, what night would be best for you?
2007-07-19 13:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by timssterling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You horny bum!! lol!
I don't think its a good idea.. At most I'd probably just compliment her. She's waaay to old.. Ultimately it's up to you..
Think about this.. if she turns you down you'll have a very uncomfortable time for the rest of her classes. So think before you act..
2007-07-19 13:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess every one has a crush for their teacher (even in college ignore it it WILL go away)
what are you gonna do with a wrinkly old raisin any way it may be sweet but a fresh one is sweeter :D
2007-07-19 13:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by mete 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore it. That's not a good situation. Just let it go. Think about her later in the night when you're... enjoying yourself. Don't bring that kind of fantasy to reality.
2007-07-19 13:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
college professors are human, however if you do not get positive visual and inviting conversations,back off.she has probably been approached by several men. if she responds go for it,older women are fantastic sex partners
2007-07-19 13:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by john h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would let the moment pass. You don't have to hit on every pretty woman you see. Find someone a bit more attainable and realistic to you...
2007-07-19 13:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Impress her by being in class every single day. Maybe she'll realize that you have the hot for her!! Good luck maybe she'll give the time of day!
2007-07-19 13:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by babysteppin2003 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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figure out what type of woman she is especially if she is single and into younger men
and flirt with her i guess
ultimately its up to you but you might get hurt if you go after her
good luck =]
2007-07-19 13:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by riskybusiness 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't do anything until after the semester is over. You could jeopardize your grade by coming on to her.
2007-07-19 13:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋