Well this guy i like likes me back and we dated before and he told me that he is willing to wait for me and that he wants to be with me more than anything in the world, and then he leaves comments on his ex girlfriend myspaces, saying your so hott, and calling them babe, baby girl, hun, and nicknames like that. does he really want to be with me as bad as he tells me? or is he just playing games?? help please?
2007-07-19 05:21:39 · 11 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Confused--
If he truly wants you, he wouldn't hesitate. In my honest opinion, he's delaying and waiting for something to materialize with some other girl. Believe me, I'm a guy and I've been guilty of this before.
Guys like him aren't deserving of you. Don't stoop to his level or play his deceptive games.
2007-07-20 08:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by Andre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a sense it helps to know what ages we are talking about here (yours and his) but at the same time just based off of what you say I would have to say he is playing games. Then again he might be a good old southern boy who uses those words without meaning behind them.
2007-07-19 12:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to think about this, would you want to go out with a guy who is two-faced. He flirts with you, but then he also flirts with other girls. What do YOU want. You, is really the key-word in this. Also, does this guy have a reputation to flirt with several girls at once? If so, I doubt you would want to date him....no matter how cute, or romantic he is.
Good luck! I hope it all turns out for the best!
2007-07-19 12:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, He's playing games. He's just telling you what you want to hear. So he can get a piece of you.
I wouldn't talk to him to him that much anymore. Keep the distance. Move on
Good Luck.
2007-07-19 12:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by dreamingfairytales 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to see which one of you he can get, if he can get you or get his ex's, you shouldn't fall for that unless u really want someone like that in your life. But hun you deserve better.
2007-07-19 12:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by blackXwhitefeathers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only u can tell... if he is really sincere on what he is saying or doing.
but as what u were saying about the comments it can mean alot it, it can be like he is just teasing his x, or he is trying to be sweet with her, or it can be the way of how they fool ok joke with each other... so u can just ask him about it
but always trust your gutt
2007-07-19 12:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's playing games, he's a boy. Besdies, you are not with him, you do not have a committment. He said he'd wait for you, not be celebate for you. Obviously, you two are not together.
2007-07-19 12:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's keeping all of you on the backburner and seeing which one heats up first... don't fall for that.
2007-07-19 12:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants cake and eat it too.
2007-07-19 12:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by wolfpak_66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women and men speak two different languages.
he means he wants to have sex with you. not that he is in love with you.
he also wants to have sex with the ex's, and wants you to know about it. and everybody else.
sorry.
2007-07-19 12:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋