2007-07-19 05:15:55 · 12 answers · asked by music4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NEVER give up one your first love, yes your pri always going to love her and hint about that to her... if she broke up with you she dont like you......
2007-07-19 05:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Joie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. I am going through the same thing, and I have found that it's almost impossible to turn your mind off, but if you try to keep yourself busy with work or friends, it helps. For me night time is the worst, but I try to keep focused on something else, a good program or movie on TV, nothing sappy, a good book, or call a friend and talk. It may take you a long time to get over this person, but just remember, it's her loss not yours. The more you convince yourself of that the easier it is going to be to move on. Start asking other people out, even if you don't feel romantically about them, you will still be out there making new friends and having fun at the same time. Do not sit at home and think about her all the time, you are just going to make the healing process take longer. Get involved with a singles group or something. Good luck to you.
2007-07-19 12:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by irish_indian_fantasy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, if she's already moved on, then there isn't much more you can do except do the same. it will take a while to get over her, but you will, in time. you need to get out and do things with other friends and meet new people. don't sit around and wonder where she's at, what she's doing, who she's with, etc.........that will only make it worse. ever hear of that saying " out of sight, out of mind"? just move on and have faith that the person you're suppose to be with is still out there! go find her!!!! good luck
2007-07-19 12:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by luv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the same question im asking myself. You move on by not thinking about her and doing diff kinds of things to keep you busy. spend time with old buddies, meet new people and pray for your hearts recovery. Forget about the love you still have for the girl. In time you will you will heal and in time you will again smile. Good luck!
If lovers are truly, madly, deeply in love with each other, both of you will find a way.
2007-07-19 12:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u dont give up yes lost love hurts but with everyday u will see that u can live as u want its ur life and u could possably be happy with someone else.
never let the fear of striking out stop u from playing the game.
2007-07-19 12:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time dude.....realize that it didn't work....don't compare her ability to move on with your life. Some people take a short time....others (me included) take real time to ensure they are past it and ready to move on.
Make yourself happy! Know that you can't change her mind, or say and do anything that will help your position. The only way things will ever go back to you dating, if she makes the decision herself, of free will.
You can't change it, so you shouldn't worry about it.
2007-07-19 12:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by someguy_in_halifax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has moved on, then you need to do something to take your mind off of her. you'll eventually get over her but it will take some time. you didnt say what caused the breakup..... maybe your better off without her or vicea versa
2007-07-19 12:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cant get over her then just talk things over with her
2007-07-19 12:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by unforgetable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself new love as well, it will pass
2007-07-19 12:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah give up an dmove on with your life...as she has.
2007-07-19 12:18:43 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋