2007-07-19 05:13:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just need to let the bad seep in.... and become bad yourself and let go that way.......
2007-07-19 05:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by ShinerKazzmo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I had been in love with someone deeply. When I knew that she was wrong person, then for few months I couldn't recover myself just cry and cry. Then I try to find someone else whom I really can share my feelings. I always controlled that not to flow with someone else if I do not know him/her very personally. So now I am married with different girl she is quite good to me. We are planning to start our life, kids next year. So kids and family will help you to forget that incident I suppose.
Cheers
2007-07-19 12:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Bluebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. I happily through the guy out. I let him go to the girls he was cheating with. Just remember: you're better than the bad guy, it's his loss, and you're never to blame when you get burned by bad love. Think of it like losing weight, you'll be glad the bad seed is gone!
2007-07-19 12:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Drowzeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than once - I later figured out that it was not the guy I thought I was in love with, it was the idea of taming him I was in love with. I let it go by realizing I could of gotten myself in to a WORLD of hurt and unhappiness had I stayed with the guy - sometimes counting your blessings puts a better perspective on things.
2007-07-19 12:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is one of the strangest things in life. I have been married 3 times and yes the 3 one was the charm. But my reason for telling you this, is we are drawn to what we know, and when I got in the relationship with my 3rd husband I couldn't understand him not hitting or yelling at me, He told me if that was what I wanted I needed to move on. So, it took some time for me to realize this is what it is supposed to be like, wow, I had been missing allot.
2007-07-19 12:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by flannelpajamas1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you mean bad did you mean bad to other people but not you or bad to everyone including yourself?
answers can vary but in my opinion if the person is a bad person to you then you need to tell yourself that your are better than that and that you deserve the world and not somebody who is going to put you down. Just know that its just a waste of time trying to reason out with a person who is bad and know well that he or she is not going to change.
you deserve better.
2007-07-19 12:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by miamigirl132003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
been through it left couple of years back just said no for once and then walked out for a few days was hard to live than gradually got over it
2007-07-19 12:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by waashaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you know that person isn't good for you, you will reach that point where you actually "realize" it. And once you realize it, then you will let go.
The heart wants what the heart wants.
2007-07-19 12:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by iamtooproud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Took a long time. Years. I learned not to be a rescuer. Good for me.
2007-07-19 12:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
I woke up. I deserved better - how could I ask him to give me more if I wasn't willing to reach for it myself.
Called it quits and haven't had a regret since.
2007-07-19 12:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by The First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I slept with his brother, stole his 8-ball, sold his flat screen TV and reported him to the local authority.
It's safe to say I'll never see him again.
2007-07-19 12:27:12 · answer #11 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋