Late for work because alarm clock went out with the power/ missed a memo for my boss... boss is pissed...
Girl cousin that I love dearly turns out to be a liar that was manipulating me to get at other family members.
Girlfriend not really my girlfriend.
Car Breaks down...
Credit cards maxed out.
Got a ticket for running a stop sign.
Got an 89.4 in a class, which lowered my PERFECT 4.0 college GPA from straight A's to a 3.8... an 89!!! so close
Anyone got any ideas... I started smoking again...
2007-07-19 04:51:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop smoking. that will make things worse int he long run. and just try and relax, things are not going to be perfect and you just need to take time for yourself. go have fun, hang out with firends, read a book and try and stop thinking about everything bad and look at the positive. keep faith and you will be fine, bad times happen, but they will pass and the good will be most memorable!
2007-07-19 04:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by Janet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I emphasize with you. It seems like I have a month like this every other month. I don't really have a concrete answer. I just keep moving on. I hate having months like this too. But I guess everything happens for a reason and if nothing bad every happened then I guess we would not learn anything. I know for me, one thing about having bad luck is that it made me a stronger person, it also build more character.
Financial problems have really tore my life to shreds. I really don't want to publicize on Yahoo Answers everything that I have gone through. But basically, my credit is absolutely shattered and currently I am driving a 1996 Neon that literally breaks down every month. But being that my credit is so very bad, I can't even get a new car. I had to call off work for my second job so many times I did not have transportation. I have no friends. Bad relationships and friends that took advantage of me has made me pretty much stop socialize all together. I'm not saying that is a good thing for anyone to do, but it works for me at least now. I know I have my family. I am working on my finances, but it is going to take a long time to get my debt down to a manageable level. Many so called friends don't realize that it is easy to get into debt, but so hard to dig yourself out; it takes years, especially since I have such a poor income.
Anyway, I could go on and on. But despite all of these problems, remember all the things that you are thankful for; family, a roof over your head, food, etc. Because there is always someone worse off than you. I remember one time that I was going to pick up my Dad at the hospital (another issue) and I was just dwelling on my problems so much and how I messed up my life. Well, my Dad had a roommate in his room with him that was also being discharged. This guy was telling my Dad that he was homeless and was admitted to the hospital because he had pneumonia. He was living in a homeless shelter and someone stole all of his clothes and belongings, including his winter coat. It was winter at the time. The hospital removed the clothes he had on his back when he arrived in the emergency room because his clothes were infested with something. He was asking my dad if he had any spare clothing because all he had was a hospital gown. This man was also eating like I never seen anyone eat before and rail thin. The hospital social worker ended up giving him clothing, coat, and a bus pass to a different shelter.
Anyway, imagine having problems like that. I don't know if you believe in God, but I do try to thank God for everything that I do have and pray that he continues to get me through al of life's hardships. Good luck to you.
2007-07-19 05:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Angrygirl5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow If I had a 3.8 when I was in school I would of jumped for joy. Everyone has bad day's , weeks , months, even years. That is life happening on life's terms write out a gratitude list of all the good things in your life. Like your not homeless and have a computer etc. and you will see your life is not so bad.
2007-07-19 04:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by richard s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down and give yourself a little "me time" Sounds like you are always running, set aside 20 minutes a night for you, whether it be tv, a book, time alone, friends, whatever. Everyone has times like these. There are more girls out there. Get a battery clock. Cars break down from time to time. Stop charging and pay cash. Pay attention to stop signs for your safety and the safety of others. You can bring up your grads. Slow down and enjoy life! Smoking won't fix anything either.
2007-07-19 05:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Angelina N 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone has bad times. your just going through 1 right now. we all have our times..... dont get mad things will start 2 clear up dont worry. also dont start smoking it will rewin your life. just quit smoking and excersise and just consentrate on how rich you are going to be cause you are doing AWSOME in school! and your going to have a beautiful wife ( dont worry about some stupid girlfriend). dont worry everyone has bad times. and a 89 isnt bad at all a c in an average so a b in above average. dont worrt youll be fine.
2007-07-19 04:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 stop smoking
2. take a break and get your life back together
2007-07-19 04:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Twizzlers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smoking is a good start. it will all come around don't worry it doesn't sound like it can get any worse!
2007-07-19 04:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by aliciamichelle06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing
stop smoking
exercise to release those hormones
also try to regroup take a roadtrip to chill and relax
think things thru n see if u can change whats going bad for u
good luck man
keep a positive attitude
2007-07-19 04:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by simple J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i came into this life wet, naked, kikkin & screamin, and when i am again wet, naked, kikkin & screamin to stay alive, then things can truly get better from there
you got a clock, that means you got a roof
you got a famaly
you have once experienced love
you have a car
you can buy things
you can read and write
most people i know have none of the above due to aids, poverty and crime, still they manage to smile
2007-07-19 05:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by flipnstar 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go to church... you need to repent...
Devil got your ***... time to go back to God!!!
2007-07-19 04:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋