What will muslim man do next?

Question

I fell in love with a muslim man. He is to be married. I told him I loved him the day before he left. He says he is confused because if I had of told him earlier he could of changed his decisions. He told me I was in his heart and he lvoed me as well. He says he can not forget about me for a second. I have posted this question before and people say he is a snak.e I am a very smart person and I know his heart. He was deeply upset to find I loved him right before he left. I want to know what will happen when he gets back? If he loves me will he ignore that? Will he leave me alone? What will he do?

* sorry for less details...he is from Saudi Arabia..he works here. We have been freinds. Nothing else. No sin.

*more details
I am christian but am exploring the Muslim faith.

* JO JO Muslim men can marry women of the book. Christian or Jewish.

Answer 1

No one can answer as to what someone else will do. You say he is Muslim, but do not mention what nationality. He may have some problems with the customs of his culture that are "forcing" him to marry. However, two questions jump to mind. If he loved you, why did he not say something and leave it up to you? Also, if he loves you, it might be assumed that he does not love the person he is marrying. So, why does he not break off the marriage. I would think that would be a possibility if he would have been able to change his plans earlier.

Since you raise the question, I will make a recommendation. If he returns and is married, I would stay away from him. I suggest this to reduce temptation. If he is married you and he should respect that commitment and relationship. If you tell yourselves, let's get together just as friends, you are playing with fire and risking too much.

I do not know what is in his heart, but if I were you I would ask yourself the questions I have posed. Ask yourself, is it possible that he is willing to keep up your relationship just for the opportunity to have some fun on the side. I am not trying to be cruel or mean, but the fact he never told you he loved you until you said something raises red flags. If he comes back unmarried, then that would be a totally different situation.

Good luck and listen to your head as well as your heart.

Answer 2

If he gets married, he is not that into you.

Forget him.

Study Islam, it is healthy to know what others believe, I did for two years.

Study your own faith as well, spend equal time on both. It might not be easy as Preaching Christianity is illegal in Saudi, you can do it on line, there is a really good Catholic site at www.Catholic.com

I am not sure how much you really know about Christianity, many only learn some as children and do not take time to learn as an adult, so spending equal time and praying about it would be a good idea.

Good Luck and God Bless!

Answer 3

Muslim men are allowed 4 wife but not in the UK. I presume he has gone for an arranged marriage maybe he will back out at the last minuet although earlier would have been easier I will pray for you. but if he has gone through with the marriage you must accept he is not the one for you and move on. I hope you can still be friends but you must give his marriage a chance.

Answer 4

If you are a Christian, you would know the following Scriptures:

"Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. .... What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?.... For we are the temple of the living God. As God has said: "I will live with them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be my people."
"Therefore come out from them
and be separate, says the Lord. ...
"I will be a Father to you,
and you will be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty."(2 Corinthians 6:14-18)NIV

Or: "What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit his very self? If anyone is ashamed of me and my words, the Son of Man will be ashamed of him when he comes in his glory and in the glory of the Father and of the holy angels."(Luke 9:25-26)NIV

Answer 5

Wow, you do not even say what country he is from. Nor do you say what kind of relationship you have had. In Islam dating is not permitted. So, if he was dating you and then you both where doing whatever he was sinning. Wish you would have given more details.

Greengo, not all Muslims are Arabs only a small precent of them are. The majority of Muslims are in South-east Asia....

Answer 6

im not sure what his religion has to do with anything...he is set to be married so you have no right to him when he comes back...period. He should leave you alone cause if he really loved you he would not run off and get married to someone else...arranged or not. better for you to just stay friends

Answer 7

im a muslim

its not if he is a muslim man or not

man is man (name a religon where their is no such thing as a cheating playboy man )

he can be a good man or a bad man

in islam

if he really love you he should marry you (should)

and yes even if you are christian or jewish

muslims can marry up to 4 women in the same time.

Answer 8

the answer of your Q is Q:ARE YOU MUSLIM AS WELL?
i'll tell you why i asked you coz a muslim can marry muslims only
i have a feeling that you're not so get over it i'm sure you 'll meet your soulmate coz he's somewhere out there
all you have to do is look for him

Answer 9

What !?
He's betrothed to another, and you tell him just before he leaves that you love him?
Now, he admits he has feelings towards you, but cannot change his marriage plans?

I think you are both snakes.
You want what you cannot have,
and now he wants what is not his.

Move onto your next victim.

Answer 10

Hopefully, God will choose the destiny of both of you in the way which benifits everyone most.

That person can never live happily in a marriage with someone else if he loves you truly. So expect him to come back to you sooner or later.