Do you think that is too many for her age or is there worse out there, seriously? I am just concerned about her, I think she needs to slow down.
2007-07-19 04:31:45 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she needs an aids test.
2007-07-19 04:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
If this has truly happened, then she needs to get tested for STDs and no matter the outcome --YES she needs to slow down. Your friend might need some help because sleeping with so many people is out of control behavior. She's really young too and when she gets older she will regret all this. If your friend is healthy tell her she's lucky and she needs to change her lifestyle before something bad happens.
2007-07-19 04:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by chrisamethyst 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems improbable that she developed any form of a secure relationship with that many men at her age so I would definitely say that is too many. She may be looking for love in the wrong way. Make a challenge with her to see if you can each remain celebate with your next boyfriends for, say, a month. If she doesn't want to continue dating the guy before that month is up, she made a wise choice not to offer herself to someone unworthy. She may have low self-esteem and feel her worth is in her body. Try to encourage her in her abilities, intelligence, etc.
2007-07-19 04:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by Carol A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is a great girl and comfortable with her sexuality. Unless she slept with all 16 at once, if that's the case then she's the greatest girl ever. Don't hate the player hate the game, play on.
2007-07-19 04:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by surfbum68m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more than normal but there are girls who have been with far more than that. The important thing is that she is using protection and not contracting or spreading diseases. As a friend I would suggest not giving opinions about the number of people, but to encourage her to use protection. She is more likely to accept your advice if you do that than if you are telling her she is a slu t and needs to slow down.
2007-07-19 04:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by John 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
woahh 16?? yeah she need to slow it down
a lot!!!! i mean shes 21 shes gonn aget herself into some trouble if she doesnt slow it down to like 2 men. i mean come on shes to young. and yeah there are worse but at the rate shes going shes gonna be one of the worst. so yeah you should be concerned and tell her she need to wait for the right guy.
well good luck
2007-07-19 04:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by ♥RaWR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry there are WORST out there but thats not the point. you cannot compare her life with others. it depends on each individual to decide whats good for them or not. look at it this way........ if she started when she was 17yrs old, thats about 3different guys a year.........no big deal really but if she started last year then its going a bit too fast. maybe she should try to know the person a little bit more before "doing" it but unfortunately today is very easy to have sex and not feel bad about it.
2007-07-19 04:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by mr b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is always worse out there, but that doesn't mean that she is OK. Far from it.
Your friend sounds like she is promiscous to say the least. Sounds like a full blown case of nymphomania to me.
But then again, what could you possibly do about it? It is her life, and if she wants to sleep with the Dallas Cowboys, there is not much you can do to stop it.
Let it be.
2007-07-19 04:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by dpilipis 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she hasn't caught anything she's OK... but remember the rule.... whatever a girl says x's 2 whatever a guys says / 3(3 or less equals 1) Has she ever had a guy tell her she feels like a glass of water... then its not OK
2007-07-19 04:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunetly thats how some people are these days, there are worse people out there, but that does not make it right. she needs to slow down and understand she is not respecting herself as much as she should. she could catch a disease or wind up pregnant. she needs to stop and really think about what she is doing. i hope that you can find a way to talk to her and help her figure out that what she is doing is wrong. good luck
2007-07-19 04:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by dancerchick5287 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my cousin is 25 and slept with 46 guys.. i am 25 and slept with 6 regret 2 tho but i would let her know she needs to be careful there is to many STD's out there..but let her know you are just concerned for her not trying to tell her what to do
2007-07-19 04:34:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋