They are getting married in August.
2007-07-19 03:37:50 · 12 answers · asked by npbishopca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
compassionate. Loosing a loved one is very difficult, but that doesn't mean that person should be alone forever. It's somewhat soon, but at least he waited a few years. My Aunt got married a month after my uncle passed away and I thought that was just horrific!
I'd suggest just being nice a open.
Good Luck!
2007-07-19 03:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by nikiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how you feel about this. But, if your aunt died a few years ago, then it is more than appropriate for your uncle to remarry if he has found someone special. Be friendly and give her a chance. People get very lonely and it is wonderful that he has met someone to share his life with at this point in his life. And believe me, it is probably nerve racking for her to meet members of his family too.
2007-07-19 04:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about nice? This woman is not replacing the memory of your aunt. She has a seperate relationship with your uncle who obviously has fallen in love with her. Your aunt is gone that doesn't mean your uncle has to stop living. He has waited an appropriate time and is free to try to be happy and I would guess this person makes him happy. You need to move on
2007-07-19 04:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by snoopy22564 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, be supportive of the whole situation.
It must be really difficult for your uncle to introduce a new woman into the whole family.
He obviously wants to have a new beggining and fell in love anew with a new person. Be happy for him,he had a hard loss, he needs the family now to approve.. it will also make him feel better inside; relieved.
Just be nice to her, smile.. get to know her. ask questions, be polite, treat her as you would any other guest.
Warm up to her and let her warm up to you.
Make her feel welcomed even though it's probably hard for you to see your own uncle sitting there with another woman by his side.
Just try to be positive of the whole thing, just like.. hopefully everyone else in your family will.
Hope this helps :)
2007-07-19 03:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by TwistedLogic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is of course complicated for her to enable go, perhaps she likes having the ashes at her living house and easily this is as much as her, he would have been your uncle, that replaced into your birthright, yet they chosen one yet another and that's an exceedingly particular bond, it ought to be that she will only take care of her loss by ability of conserving him together with her at living house, in case you look into it that way, do you not sense a splash selfish for desirous to take that removed from her? did your uncle have a typical place that your loved ones ought to nominate as someplace to visit pay respects? it may be better that way, then you definately can visit your aunty's living house to make certain her and visit the common place to visit your uncle? via fact the further information: it ought to be suitable to to you yet i nevertheless think of you will desire to enable her shop him at living house, the certainty that she is remarried and that his ashes are actually saved interior the shed does sound a splash unusual, yet as long as her present day husband is conscious, i don't see approaches to do something approximately it with out detrimental your man or woman relationships together with her. perhaps this is not selfishness on your section and is now greater comprehensible in spite of the shown fact that it form of feels as though she has made up her innovations on the situation.
2016-10-22 01:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by quintero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a separate issue from the sadness of your aunt's passing.
Love and marriage are joyous occasions. How wonderful that he may know love again.
2007-07-19 03:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by Bentley 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendly.
2007-07-19 03:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's nice that he is dating and be happy for him. I'm sure your Aunt would like for him to be happy and enjoy life too.
2007-07-19 03:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself.
why put on an act?
give the lady a chance... sometimes it's nice to meet new people....
2007-07-19 03:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow
2007-07-19 04:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋