I have a secret crush and since noone here knows my real identity I can say his name, STEVE
He isn't even that hot, he looks kind of geeky, but something about him just melts my butter
It must be that big truck he drives.
Is it OK to fantasize about making love in the back of that big white truck of his?
Even if I'm married? I'm not goign to do anything with him just LUST
omg why do I like STEVE?
2007-07-19 03:14:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's the thrill of the unattainable. I assume Steve is a fairly rugged man, who lives by his own rules. I guess driving a truck is pretty cool too.
Feel free to fantasize about him, but remember that he'd just use you, and then throw you away like an old hanky, so you'd best stick with your reliable(?) husband.
2007-07-19 03:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by tgypoi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something about him you like is probably something your missing in your marriage. Its totally normal and ok to have crushes while your married aslong as you dont act on it. Fantasize all you want, it can sometimes make the lovin better with the husband :) .. im not married but my current crush is a geeky guy with a big truck lol and its weird cuz i often go towards the more bad boy sexy type.. but im totally digging this geeky guy haha have fun
2007-07-19 10:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Emily May 11/10/08 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can talk about him here your husband is not here but i think you need to talk with someone like your best friend and no worry it a normal thing for everybody to be fantasize something like this and if they say no and never you know they are lying and i question i need to ask how much you love your husband, think all the good and bad you experience with your husband how he ask you your hand marriage that can let you complete forget this hope this help
2007-07-19 10:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by mike2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your married and its forbidden both ways. For one you have a husband and for two some women are attracted to the social outcast types.... so you seeing him as geeky sparks ur interests in other areas of his being.
2007-07-19 10:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Durr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you stay away and run far and as fast as possible!! you dont want to risk your relationship with your husband for some fantasy...and if its that big of a problem for you completely remove yourself from this steve guy...avoid him at all costs!!! its not worth it
2007-07-19 10:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be Steve's personality that you are attracted to or it could be that you always want what you cant have or not suppose to have. enjoy the flirtatious part of it all. and everybody has fantasies, it is a natural thing that puts excitement and spice in your life. just make sure no one gets hurt in the situation.
2007-07-19 10:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by tiggerlilyt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to have urges and fantasies about other people, even when you're married. It's whether or not you ACT on those fantasies that matters. I wouldn't tell your spouse about it, but don't beat yourself up for having a crush.
2007-07-19 10:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by Beth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur married then seems to me that u cannot be 100% happy in your marriage...maybe you arent getting the attention u want and deserve. fantasizing over and over may drive u to act on it...just remember that u are married.
2007-07-19 10:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by myourchisin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married then lusting for a different man is wrong. why don't you and your husband go on a vacation-- just the two of you.
That just might work-- Good luck!
2007-07-19 10:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by mperez_1122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need a little fantasy in our lives. Just keep it as a fantasy. The real thing with him would be a let down.
2007-07-19 10:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Twiggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋