Ladies, do any of you have problems finding a man willing to date a single Mom. I have a good job, I am not seeking someone to "take care of me" but it seems like as soon as the guy finds out I have kids, then he is out the door without a good-bye. Are there any decent men out there who know a good woman when they see one?
2007-07-19 03:01:35 · 16 answers · asked by vaughnc5920 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been divorced 2 years, and I am 31 years old
2007-07-19 03:31:54 · update #1
Why are you trying to find a man willing to date a single mom? You are a woman first and a mom second. In any case stop looking, especially when you are doing it expecting the guy to ran off when he finds out you are a mom. According to the Law of Attraction: what we expect, we attract and that's exactly what we get. How about getting clear as to whether you want a guy who will be madly in love with you so much so that your kids will be a gift that he gets as part of the package? Once you are clear, enjoy being with yourself and your kids and let him find you! STOP LOOKING. HE WILL FIND YOU!
2007-07-19 03:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mapenzi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys are not looking for a relationship when there are already kids involved....and yes, the kids do become involved like a wedge because they need to be cared for leaving not much time for a man & a woman to be together.
And if their father(s) come to see the kids, etc. that's another thing that's difficult to be around.
Unless a man is really, really into a single mom; there isn't much chance he'll be interested except maybe for booty calls in the middle of the night. Sad, but true in most cases.
2007-07-19 03:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i does not date a single mom and that i disagree with scailizithaproblem that only a genuine guy might. What precisely does he guy by ability of this? That in case you come again to a decision a single mom isn't for you that by some ability you're actually not a genuine guy? besides, i does not date a single mom for those reasons: a million) maximum interest interior the courting might get carry of (extremely rightly) to the newborn. i might quite a difficulty the place interest ought to be placed on one yet another, extremely on the initiating of the relation deliver. 2) coping with the ex. and individually not feeling soft engaging of his function. 3) development a courting with the newborn and if issues do not paintings out or end badly having that courting taken from you. 4) flexibility - with the flexibility to do what and once you want on the spur of the 2nd.
2016-10-22 01:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by teters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Guys are into me but as soon as they find out that I have a kid (he's 11) I either I don't hear from them again or they make up some stupid excuse. I really hate it because it's not like I'm asking them to become a father, my son already has one and he has plenty of friends. (so they shouldn't be worried about being his friend.) I don't know if guys think that since you already have a kid that as soon as you meet someone that you will automatically want to settle down with them and get married . It's not like that for me. I guess my answer would be that there are very few . Good luck, I hope you find the happiness you are looking for
2007-07-19 03:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by kellylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mature man doesn't mind and believe it or not their are some mature men still out there. Try an older man, go to places where you might meet a single dad. I find that men with kids understand a women with kids a bit more and are more sympathetic in times where you can't find a sitter and often deal better with your kids.
Don't lose hope, good luck!
2007-07-19 03:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think men dont like to date single mom. if u love some one i dont think n e thing else matters. when a guy understand u properly he suerly will take good care of u just d way u want. so be patient. as of now keep looking. i wish i could go out with u on a date some day so v can know each other well. tk care be happy.
2007-07-19 03:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by anjish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age... Most young men don't want to settle down and be a father figure yet. I'm mature for my age, but even I am not ready to be a father... That's why I haven't had kids. True, if the girl seems to be "the one", children are a part of her... But I'm only 20 and still want to live life and have fun!
Good luck.
2007-07-19 03:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might just be the area you're in... I know several guys that are dating single moms and most guys I know could care less if she has kids.
2007-07-19 03:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by agentw40 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Single moms of the past have ruined it for the future single moms.
2007-07-19 03:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You single moms chose the assholes over the good guys, and had kids with those trashy dudes. Now YOU expect us good men to take care of the bad boys seed? No way in hell, will I ever date a single mom. You should have chosen the nice guys over the assholes. It is YOUR fault that good men do not want you!!!! More and more girls choose the assholes over the nice guys and become single moms. If you want your criminal, then YOU take care of his kids yourself. The good men walked away from you forever!!! Go MGTOW and let these bitches rot!!!!
2016-06-21 22:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋