I mean even your very first love........can you still have that sexual attraction if you see them? Do you remember you loves? What if someone who was your ex from 9th grade but you were friends since you were little moved on saw eachother again and they told you..."I regret everyday that i did not marry you" " where would my life be"?? this is deep to me what do you think?
2007-07-19 02:15:37 · 28 answers · asked by blondiebella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe in the same thing.
Once you love someone it is forever. It doesn't stop just because your not seeing that person anymore or that you have moved on in life.
There was someone in College that I was madly in love with and she was a gorgeous girl both inside and out. Truly a beautiful girl, but she also loved to have unprotected sex. I was at a time in my life when being a parent was not going to happen. I was not ready for that, and so I didn't have sex with her as a result I lost her.
That was 30 years ago and there isn't a day go by that I do not sit and say...I regret not having sex with you and marrying you.
2007-07-19 02:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by mikeae 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Is one or the other still married? If so not very happily. 20 + years stumbled across my first true love, talked on the internet only, felt like we were looking into each other's eyes. How can a keyboard make a person feel sexually aroused ( you know what I mean) Both question why? what happened between us? We were young and in high school was the conclusion.! talking for about 4 months feels like you found your favorite lost slipper, One wants to visit home after 8 years. Wants to stop by and visit with me. The question is do we dare.\, or just keep asking what if? When you hear of a upstanding honest answer please let me know. OK. I'll do the same for you. See you aren't alone with questions running around in your head.
2007-07-19 02:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by rockin r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many different types of love. I saw my first love many years later. We ran into each other at the bank. When I was dating him in high school I thought I could not live with out him. 13 years later I can honestly say No, I do not regret I did not marry him. I am at a great place in my life. However I have many great memories and was glad he was a part of my life.
2007-07-19 02:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to think that...
you think it at the time when your not over them yet, but you will always move on and can develop the same feelings if not stronger for someone else.
the meaning and feeling of being in love changes as you grow older and wiser.
you will properly look back in a few years at your '1st love' and think 'i could never be with that person now, what did i see in them'...
life is short, enjoy it and remember what is meant to be will be and everything happens for a reason.
men have a habit of saying things like that to get a your reaction and test the waters.
i've been there and got back with my high school sweetheart 7 years later, it lasted 4years but ended badly,
There was a reason i left him and it was the same the reason the second time round...
2007-07-19 02:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change as they get older, so the person you loved in the ninth grade won't be the same person 10 years from high school. Even the married people change, but hopefully they change and grow together. We can live in our memories and fantasies, but the reality is what s happening in your present life. Your present life is real, you don't have to guess about it or speculate about what COULD be. Most people that are happy with their lives, don't have to look back and say, "I wonder what would happen if I saw my boyfriend from high school again." People like that have too much time on their hands and need to get busy and live in the present.
2007-07-19 02:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First love wow beautiful memories, from experienced yes and no. My first love the father of my children hmmm we got married. Married for 20 yrs., divorced, regretted it but we moved on. Yes from time to time we found each but there was an understanding, and yes we care about each other I love him and vice a versa but we are not in love with each other. We presently found partners who we have fallen in love with. The love I have for my partner today is not the same as the one I shared with my ex. husband, and the sexual desires to be with him are also gone and have been for years now. Old crushes, puppy loves from the past do come and go in my memories and that is all it is sweet, innocent, laughable memories. So in response to your question YES, you still hold a special spot in your heart for that ex., yes you still love them in your own special way..especially when you still can get along...
2007-07-19 02:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have trouble believing that you could have a true love back in 9th grade. Seems a bit young to understand all that love entails. Sounds like you were in lust, not in love. Once you are an adult and you are really in love, yes, I do think it always stays with you and you will always think of and wonder about that person. I know I sure do.
2007-07-19 02:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone will love thier first love forever. It's the strongest bond you felt for someone not related to you ever in your life. Something like that stays with you forever. I am still in love with my first love. Yes I've dated other girls, yes I've loved a couple others, but she is always there in the back of my mind. As for other loves, it's never as intense or as strong as that first one. Honestly, I would drop whoever I was with if I had another chance with her. So no it's not too deep to be thinking about.
2007-07-19 02:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by Colt 45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you right now I have no feelings for my first love anymore. I do not regret not taking her back because I'm with someone whos real with me, much better personality, and a lot more beautiful.
My short answer is that I'm incredibly pleased with how things turned out.
2007-07-19 02:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must still be young. Just because you "thought" you loved someone, you don't love them forever. Some of them actually will turn your stomach. Yes, you may still have feeling for the ones you didn't have a traumatic break up with but that's less of the norm.
2007-07-19 02:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by manoflamancha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋