Or do you prefer to stay angry?
2007-07-19 01:39:50 · 19 answers · asked by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Well Emil you make forgiveness look like a weakness...........
And I don't offend on purpose, it's not my way.
2007-07-19 08:52:43 · update #1
I believe that you couldn't offend me. I know who I am and what you say will not change that in the least. It comes down to self worth and self esteem, you can't make me feel angry, sad, or any other emotion because I am in control and I choose my thoughts and feelings related to those thoughts.
No matter what you say or do towards me, there must be a good reason that you feel the need to elicit a negative response from me. Its generally something lacking in you and not me. I forgive as we are all born Innocent and somewhere along the way we are somehow wounded and this is what often propergates untoward behaviours.
2007-07-19 02:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Now that depends entirely on how I perceive you.
Did you say one little thing that is not characteristic of the way you talk in general? Then, I forgive quickly and forget.
Do you say offensive things often? Are you always insulting me or others? Then, I distance myself from you. I will forgive, but am not willing to keep putting up with these words.
2007-07-19 03:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One forgives when there is nothing he can do; it's a mater of self protection: people go crazy if kept "steamy" for too long.
I personally never forgive and never forget. I just breeze; then, if I can... you don't want to find out.
And I think I'm not actually that different from other people. It's only I don't make nor buy BS.
2007-07-19 01:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Emil Alexandrescu 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DRAGON say offend on purpose or accident? is little easier if accident can express hurt & work through in forgiveness. on purpose wondering why was said and why you would hurt me. forgive any way, mayb talk and say I m hurt.
either way keeping it in and not forgiving festers inside and destroys. doesn't even affect person who said
2007-07-19 04:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rarely do I stay angry. We are all human and have opportunities to learn. Most people IRL apologize or discuss it in a mature fashion.
Some people, however, only have one tired message to send out, and I happen to be the unlucky recipient for that moment. I just forget about them.
2007-07-19 02:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by Buttercup 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too much energy to stay angry,if you really offended me,I'd just tune you out until I had the chance to talk it over.
2007-07-19 01:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara D 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would want to talk out the problem, If it offended me.
when you are angered, nothing moves foward, and a lot of damage in a relation ship occurs.
2007-07-19 01:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by duster 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
of course, and that i've got my reasons too, so...only look out your window and you will see that i've got coated your Corolla in shaving cream with the message "Shave Me" written on the windshield. No offense taken. The ball is on your court docket now, sea coast. wish this helped.
2016-10-22 01:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by zaragosa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I overheard you say something offensive, I would be wary of you, not angry. If you said directly to me, I would confront the issue and not get angry.
2007-07-19 04:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I tend to forgive people unless its something really hurtful
2007-07-19 01:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋