l`ve been with bloke for 5 mths,l asked him where we stand as a couple, he said l`m not sure we are a couple, we only get up to one thing(sex) (with isnt ture we do go out and about). Altough on the other hand he did say that we`re good together. So should l stick with him or not or should l question him more?
l do like him.
please help.
2007-07-19 01:19:59 · 12 answers · asked by hunnybunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to say it, but if you're on here wondering, then you're probably wasting your time. If the relationship was really that good and really worth it and he really loved you, then you would know it. Figure out what you want in a relationship. If this guy is not giving it to you, then tell him what you want. If he won't do it, then dump his sorry butt and move on. Good luck!
2007-07-19 01:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think you should do is give him space and no more sex...so he can decide if he really cares for you. He may be doing the going out once and awhile so that he can get into your panties...its good that you really like him but how many other boys have you really liked and how many in the future will you really like...my point being that we really like a lot of ppl so if we have to let one go then its ok because there will always be someone else. Respect yourself and make him do the same. If you give him space he may realize that he really wants to be with you or he may move on...if thats the case then he really wasn't into YOU in the first place. Good Luck I really hope it works out for you.
2007-07-19 08:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by PoshBCD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey 5 months isn't a long time to be sure about him. If he isn't sure about you are being a couple then why remain as a couple when he doesn't know. You are more special than that. Yes, I think that he is wasting your time. Stop giving hin sex and see what happens then. Life is to short for maybes. Don't wait for him answer the questions you answer it. Tell him if we aren't a couple then move on.
2007-07-19 08:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I have to be blunt: He is just using you. If you are involved sexually and he can't even tell you what your status is, then he just wants sex. That is why the status should come before the sex. He may mean you're good together sexually. I would not stick with him if I were in your position, after 5 months you should definitely know where you stand.
2007-07-19 08:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Aja H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After five months, if this was his answer then I believe he is just happy the way things are. Sexually, that is.
He doesn't even consider you officially his "girlfriend" even after this long a time (its not as though you asked him after a week). You don't need over five months to know that you are just dating someone, or whether or not you are a couple.
If you are looking for a committed relationship, I would highly recommend moving on and finding someone else.
2007-07-19 08:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Patience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him about it!! Tell him that you are looking for a serious relationship.. He doesnt love you... But you need 2 talk with him if the thing is only about sex like he said it, broke up with him! Good luck and sorry about him :):)
2007-07-19 08:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a couple of more months. If by then, he's still unwilling to make you his girlfriend, then it's probably time to find someone else.
Don't waste too much time waiting.
2007-07-19 08:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to separate yourself from the situation for a bit....go out with friends....space yourself from him.....after 5 months I would think it obvious your a couple but he doesn't.....tht makes me think he's also looking for what he thinks is something better.....you said you like him...you could be friends and that may be better for both of you....if it is truely love I think both of you would have known by now. Please see yourself as what you are a woman, we are better than they are, we are smarter....more independent....self sufficient and don't need to be "daddy'd"......
2007-07-19 08:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by ma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talkto him, its sounds like hes confused. he says all you guys do is have s3x but he also says you guys are good together. He needs to be straight foward w/ you.
2007-07-19 08:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Always you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said you ;ike him not love him that is the answer
2007-07-19 08:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋