how do i meet a nice guy?

Question

I'm a 37 year old Goan spinster, never married, trying 2 meet Mr Right, but having no success. I've tried placing matrimonial ads, shaadi.com, etc, etc. but keep meeting the wrong type of person. i just started searching last year coz i was so busy with my career ... and im now beginning to think i'll be single 4ever. how do i meet a nice guy.... fast ... help!!

Answer 1

This shouldn't be any of my business, but try www.eharmony.com . who knows

Answer 2

I am a 36, soon to be 37 year old man who has never been married myself. I know exactly how you feel. There are days I feel as though I will never meet anyone and feel like I will die a lonely old man. On the other hand I know it is better to die the lonely old death thank to marry and live life with the wrong person.

I have learned long time ago that you don't want to rush anything. Especially something very important like potential marriage. You want to take your time in finding that someone. If that means you have to date 1000 people before you find the one, then that is what you do.

If you really want to find the person you feel will be Mr. Right, first you need to make a list of everything you want him to be. For instance, how tall should he be? What are his personal values? Does looks matter? What about his finances? You also need to get out more. Try putting it out amoungst your friends that you are available. They in turn might know someone who you might be interested in.

Most importantly, don't try and find him in any place where alcohol is consumed! You can try chruches or other places of religious worship. Try social or political clubs. Volunteer groups is a good way to meet people as well. Continue to use the internet. Yes you need to beware of who you meet online, but also look at it as another avenue to meet others.

Answer 3

Try church. There are nice guys there that will treat you good. Some are not nice but the chances are better than a bar or the net. If they live a good christian life then they will treat you with repect and not as a piece of meat or a chance to cheat you out of money. As you attend, you can get to know them as a friend first then take it farther as the relationship grows. Just a thought.

Answer 4

Try going to church.Sometimes churches have a singles class.Do you work at a fair sized business?Invite men & women over for a get together from work.If you have the time volunteer someplace.That way your mind will be off yourself,& you'll relax & will meet someone.Volunteer at an art museum,science museum,an organization,etc.Good Luck.

Answer 5

like that guy said, internet ads aren't exactly the best choice, you need to go out there and meet people face to face, because you honestly don't know who's on the other side of the computer. bars, night clubs, etc, aren't exactly the best places to look, because there is a high chance you will meet chronic drinkers, etc. try going to places a bit more formal, where you can interact with all the people, and just be yourself (as cliche as that sounds it is true). and things will flow naturally and when you find him, you will know.

Answer 6

if i may be so bold! what do you do for a living? you must be some sort of manager or in the upper ranks like that and used to giving orders out like a drill Sargent. you may no longer be able to present yourself and a grown lady looking for Mr. right. instead your looking around like a wolf on the hunt and only getting enough for a single night.In short your looking for someone like me, no ego here! I am an old romantic that like to take my time , and i like to be in control and take care of my lady like one should be! yes you would get thet roses and the everything that would go with it. But you would get me to tell you this "ill call you later " if you treated me like one of your employee's! ! ! no i wouldnt call you again unless it was a one night booty call!
i preffer a woman that knows how to act like a woman ! to be treated like one! no there isnt many left like me out there due to abuse from many other women out there!
most women never would have given me the time of day when i was younger , now they are singe even after many a bad marriage and im still with the love of my life! we treat each other with respect and kindness and do things for each other that makes others jelouse! She takes very good care of me and i do the same for her no matter what!

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Dr. Phil reccomends EHarmony.com

Answer 9

Hey i'm a nice guy but i'm only 17 bout to be 18 in three months but i know this won't help.so i think you need to give guys a chance to see which one you really like, like they say don't judge a book by it's cover.Good luck!!

Answer 10

You keep looking. There's no other way but to look and hope for that man and if you cant find him then you have to deal with it. It's just the way things got to be.

Answer 11

Hi,
You won't be able to find mr right . . as if. . .
you're looking for the perfect guy . . you may
not mean that way though .. .
Look for someone that has got a beautiful heart
instead . .

NOTE :Love will come your way without struggle
if he's for you...
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Just a thank you to Emily J.. thanks .. you're lovely.