i've never asked my GF about her sex life before me....but it almost kills me inside to know she might have had sex with other ppl....i know its crazy and dumb...but i just need to know...and if she has it would really break me..i don't know why. (i was a virgin when i met her)
2007-07-18 21:27:16 · 10 answers · asked by Koool dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i;m 100% sure she doesn't have any diseases ....
2007-07-18 21:35:19 · update #1
i don't WANT a virgin girl...i love my girlfriend a lot....i just need to get over the fact that she might have had relationships with other ppl...
well just so you guys know we have been goin out for 3 years now!!!! SOUNDS LIKE A LOT NOW
2007-07-18 21:58:36 · update #2
I wouldn't ask her. Let her keep this to herself. If she breaks up with you. You don't want her to kiss and tell about her relationship with you.
2007-07-18 21:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by DR. Care 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its like this you better get use to women not being virgins that is very rare if you are going to blow off a girl cause she isn't a virgin then you may end up being very lonely . The other thing is to people do make mistakes and things happen it would be real sad if you blew off your life partner
2007-07-18 21:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by rick k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it would be to your advantage to if she has been sexually active. Why would you want a girl that didn't know what to do in bed? Especially if you had been a virgin. Experience is the best teacher and if you were a virgin, you need good teaching to be able to satisfy her, or anyone for that matter. Enjoy it.
2007-07-18 21:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no1 likes thinking of there women with another bloke what are you doing to yourself chill out all that matters is the here and now and she's with you what does that tell you , that she didnt like the other blokes so she is with you say 4 instance she has been with 10 blokes and you are number 11 well that makes you a better person than those 10 other guys you won well done
2007-07-18 21:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I think sex should revolve around love, not necessarily marriage. People get married without being in love all the time... I think once that special person comes along that you know you love...it is OK.
2016-05-17 07:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by albertina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know then ask her, but you also have to be prepared to tell her about your experiences.
And why does the fact that she may have had someone before you bug you so much? She had a right to and so did you.
2007-07-18 21:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by ninaxw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best. Ask her and try to explain your fears and thoughts, i'm she will understand. Only in this way you will get to know each other. It is unusual to feel this way and you will stop suffering with uncertainty... Ask her ! Good luck !
2007-07-18 21:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude... i have an idea... go nail a bunch of other chicks and it will make u feel better about urself then u can be sure that u have had more sex and u wont care about what ur gf has done... dont ask, dont tell
2007-07-18 21:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her nicely and politely... and dont sound like you would be hurt anyway,or she'll lie to please you... you know what i mean.. ask her if she is comfortable in telling you about her previous relationships...
good luck.. i hope u dont get disappointed...
kendi
2007-07-18 21:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you got to know cause if she had sex with anybody that passed her a diease that doesn't know she has she can pass it to you
2007-07-18 21:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋