Just because someone is currently with someone doesn't mean the person is the right person for them. So it happens that a guy got to her first. Surely there are plenty of guys out there. How would you know which is the best, if you just stick to the first one that comes into your life?
So if I see a women I like, even though she is in a relationship or married. Can I flirt and charm her to break that joke of a relationship and be with me?
Is it okay if they aren't married? Is it okay if they are married. Religiously speaking. Seriously if they didn't have God's blessing.
2007-07-18 19:34:08 · 18 answers · asked by 2nd Commander 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
why not? must I wait for their relationship to end. I don't think they are good enough. How about that? sounds arrogant, but if you want something, why not try and take it?
Do i have to wait and pick up left overs? please enlighten me to make the right decision.
2007-07-18 19:39:25 · update #1
women aren't property so who is to say a girl belongs to another man? What? they are one when they marry?
2007-07-18 19:42:37 · update #2
I don't think its right to interfer in another person's relationship. I am not at all religious but this is Golden Rule stuff, treat others as you would have them treat you maxim which appears in most belief systems and I think comes from experience and common sense.
I think that if she loves him she would let you know she is committed and not interested. Still doing so even if the relationship is not strong will cause someone pain from your actions and you know ahead this is the result. The relationship may end on its own if it is not right for them but if you interfer than you have interjected another element that may cause its demise. It may have been they would work things out and be very happy. Also, instead of knowing that they tried and it wasn't meant to be they may now one or both resent you and feel that is the reason. Would you want someone to do this with the person you loved?
I totally agree women aren't property but I wouldn't want another woman trying to seduce my mate either. Its a choice she made to be in a relationship with the person she is with. So its about respecting her choice and not interfering. I mean let her know how you feel if you want but I think its wrong to try to derail an existing relationship. As others have said find someone single.
2007-07-18 19:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Zen Pirate 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 04:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kicked my husband out for doing just what you have mentioned. We did try to work things out, but now he's my ex. I never strayed when I was married or involved with a guy. Not because of God's blessing either. When two people are in a relationship, there's that trust of not cheating and if the trust is broken, so is the relationship.
2007-07-18 19:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by Keselyű 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Would you want another man doing that to you? Who are you to say that the man they are with is not right for them?
Why would you want to encourage a married woman to commit adultery? Not that she isn't to blame as well.
Just because a couple does not have God's blessing does not mean you can interfere.
Stop looking at other men's wives or girlfriends. Find a nice single girl, and focus on charming her.
2007-07-18 19:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs M 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea. Try and find one of the millions of SINGLE women out there. What are you trying to prove? That you are better than any other man on the planet? Once a man takes an interest in a woman, you feel the need to have her? Look inside yourself and see what the problem really is.
2007-07-18 19:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by Starjumper the R&S Cow 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Married and not married are two different situations. Religiously speaking, marriage is a spiritual union between a man and a woman, so if you break them up, you are breaking up a spiritual bond that God ordained for that couple.
If two people are not married, that sanctified bond isn't there yet, so it's not adultery.
It could, however, be a case of jealousy, envy, lust or dishonesty to break up a dating couple so you could date one of them, depending on the situation.
2007-07-18 19:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No you remind me of my ex and that's a bad thing he thought he was gods gift to women and frequently broke up relationships just to dump her a few months later. There are enough jerks in the world we need more good people.
2007-07-19 03:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by Marina-chan83 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on if you actually could win her over you would be breaking a couple commandments - something about coveting thy neighbor's wife and then committing adultury if you would be succerssful.
Otherwise try if you want. If they are in a stable relationship you will just be rebuffed anyway. If she isn't - who knows.
2007-07-18 19:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Sage Bluestorm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think it would be alright with you if I tried to seduce your wife when you get married? I bet you would not be down with that. It is a sin to covet another man's possessions, if you are talking about scripture.
2007-07-18 19:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
i was living in that sin (adultery) and the bible says "the wages of sin is death" i started reaping from that sin. it got real bad to. it made me ask for repentance and i gave my life to God. I'm thankful cause it woke me up!! you will never have God's blessing with that kind of relationship. i was deceived into thinking we were soul mates. that it was OK what i was doing. don't fall into that trap! you WILL reap from it. if your meant to be together don't approach the wrong way, let them divorce (not separate) but divorce, but not divorce cause of you, but cause they see its not gonna work. the worse thing to do is cause the divorce yourself. even if you don't believe in His word, think bout this, if it gets found out someone probably gonna get hurt. i don't just mean mentally either. ppl kill from that kind of betrayal.
2007-07-18 19:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by warrior*in*the*making 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋