hey well i knew this gurl all my life she is my best friend and i luv her to death shes always been there for me so i decide to ask her out we have been goin out for about 3weeks now and me nd her really luv each other but theres 1 problem.....HER MOTHER.... :( her mother is to over protective just cuz i have a pen1s makes me a bad person.....also cuz i dont go to church she dont like me......so im really nervous that her momz is gonna break us up any suggestions that could really help me oyea and started goin back 2 church lol...well thx
2007-07-18 19:29:16 · 13 answers · asked by ~$Cros$~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No i would never get her pregnut i luv to much for that i dont wanna ruin her life
2007-07-18 19:35:28 · update #1
LoL its funny cuz when i go to her house he mom is always lookin at me mad hard like ima criminal even b4 we were going out its like ima killer or summthing but yea
2007-07-18 19:43:09 · update #2
haha, your gonna be a player later, going to church for a girl. bring up the problem before the girl brings up that she wants to break up and she wont tell you why (assuming that it is the mother thing). and say that you are worried that it could happen, it will make you look sensitive to relationship issues in a proactive way. and remember that the bottom line is that mothers to daughters, while still under heavy influence the daughter is always a different person and will remember that you care.
2007-07-18 19:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by SavantWar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh oh oh. I know this one all too well. Going back to church may help. I brought my bad boy to my church to go to youth group with me. Over time my mother settled down. If her mother knows you and realizes how close you two already are, she may be worried that things will move faster than they have with past relationships.
You boys are a scary thing and since you didn't say "luv" I realize you're still in the infatuation stage. Try to prove to Mommy that you're not a bad person. Hang out at her house and get on her mother's good side. Trust me, I know it's hard. If you're not a bad person then there is no reason for her to think you are one, let her see the good in you that her daughter sees.
But really...we women do think that MOST men/boys are all the same. She's worried about her offspring's innocence.
2007-07-19 02:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time at her house when her mom is home, so you can show her by your actions and behavior that you are a really great guy who sincerely cares about her daughter. Offer to help her with some 'manly' type chores. You'll score big points and she'll realize that not all penis-bearing creatures are bad. You're already on the right track by going to church, since that's important to her. Keep going in that direction and she'll think you're the best boyfriend her daughter could have. Just keep it sincere, cuz she'll see right thru anything fake. Best of luck to you!
2007-07-19 02:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by classic1957gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well - Thats a problem for you to discuss with her mother. Parents are the worst part in a teenage relationship. Normally the father is the most over protective to a female child. But in your case its her mother. Tell her mother that your intentions with her daughter is to love her and protect her. To be with her during rough times and to treat her with respect. Remeber its not the mother you love its her daughter.
2007-07-19 02:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by Shawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should tell the mom that you care about her daughter a lot. tell her that you've even decided to go back to church for this girl. comunication may win her heart. most moms are also softened by a gentlemen and show her that you dont just want to hit it and quit it with her daughter. hope everything works out. :)
2007-07-19 02:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by julia12+11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her mom a letter...tell her how much you respect her and her daughter....say i can't go to church because i am not religious but i do love god i pray to him everyday, and i feel its OK with god. I hope you daughter and i can be friends for ever because i really love her, i promise to always protect her
2007-07-19 02:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just respect her mother. just remember it is her daughter. its not that you have a dick, its that ur a guy, and shes a girl. and thats her moms baby. if you show that you care about her, then her mom will eventually start backing off. just give it time, its only been 3 weeks ...
2007-07-19 02:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by creepyaliens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound commited to keep your gf.
maybe you should talk to her about you and her having dinner together with the rents'
it'll show your maturity, and the things you say will show her parents that you do care about her.
dont kiss hug or touch her infront of her mother though.
2007-07-19 02:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id sujest iether standin up to her mother and explaining to her tht ur not a bad person or hav ur gurlfriend do it and yes u shud start goin to church but i dont c wat the big deal is about church u dont hav to go to church to prove to god tht u luv him
2007-07-19 13:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by jeremy a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her mother is not overprotective. She's protecting her daughter from pregnancy, disease and situations she's not ready to handle. Deal with it.
2007-07-19 02:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋