2007-07-18 17:44:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bobbie, I am 27 and married to a 41 year old man. We also have a four year old son together as well. Listen, there is nothing wrong with dating older men, sometimes the relationships can go quite well and at times they can go quite bad. I love my husband with all of my heart it is just that sometimes I feel as if our age difference gets in the way cause he is more experienced in life than I am or will ever be and he is far more advanced in "knowledge" than I am which at times causes conflict. Also, he can come off sounding like my dad and I have mentioned this to him as well. You see sweetie whenever you say the words "I do" you're making a lifelong commitment, that is to love, honor, and cherish in sickness and in health til death do you part. Look, you'd be better off finding someone your own age to grow old with and also have kids with and not one that will just roll over and die in a matter of years. No regrets, that's my motto!
2007-07-18 18:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by chris a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon completely upon the guy. there is not any one feeling that anyone 40 two 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous adult men would have some 27 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous woman. some will go after a youthful woman via fact of as midlife disaster. some adult men would be finding for a woman they think of they'd contreol. Others will sense not something better than paternal thoughts for a youthful woman. nevertheless others will only be finding for that youthful "eye candy." finally, some would have genuine loving thoughts in direction of her. it particularly is a great age distinction. some couples could have a healthful courting, some can not.
2016-10-22 00:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the problem, other than the obvious age related ones. Who knows what beats in the heart of lovers? I have fallen for someone, although it turned out to be something of a scam. She was much younger than me, but it seemed we were very like minded. Age is a number.
2007-07-18 17:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not the greatest scenario if you ask me. That big of an age difference is sure to cause problems down the road. Plus you have to think that the man is old enough to be the girl's father.
2007-07-18 17:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by undercover_artiste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 27 yr old,mean she knows what she is doing.All is up to her.If she is happy,then is okay.
2007-07-18 17:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i bet the 53 year old man feels amazing, i know i would
2007-07-18 17:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that love is a special thing and age should not matter if your happy.its hard to find someone thats happy anymore and if these two are then you should be as well.after all age is just a number.
2007-07-18 17:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by liz s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you are happy with him and you love him then go for it don't let anyone tell you any different age is a number
2007-07-18 17:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by 2bit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what i think.. you're gonna do what you want to do either way.
Just for the record though i think that's a little too old..
2007-07-18 17:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by starryeyed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both grown and you make your own decisions. Not my cup of tea but more power to you!
2007-07-18 17:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by Inquiry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋