My twin boys in their fifteenth year of age. As a true christians, I have some doubts. My children are very much interested in hearing and singing pop albums and albums. Shall i permit them or not? Will it influence their character? Pls. let me know.
2007-07-18 16:53:12 · 9 answers · asked by jaby 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Some good. Some bad. Use discernment.
2007-07-18 16:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids pretty much develope their personality around 7 years old. From 0-7 is the best time for good influence to be in their lives. They are going to listen to it whether you permit them to or not, so why not listen to it WITH them and get to know what they're interested in?
2007-07-18 16:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Y!A P0int5 Wh0r3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant tell you how to raise your children. Allow them to do what you feel is right, if you allow them to do things you are not in favor of, you will share in the guilt if they get hurt.
For me however I like all kinds of music though some may have lyrics I don't appreciate but I dont consider myself easily offended either. I am not offended by as many things that most Christians are but I know I wouldnt give my children permission to offend me.
2007-07-18 17:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by impossble_dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably better to let them have them, they're going to hear it anyway and they might feel deprived and become rebellious if you are overly strict about it.
However, try to use discretion and not let them buy music that is overly negative--promoting violence, vulgar language, etc.
It will be some influence on them, but if you provide a positive role model, your influence will be much greater.
2007-07-18 17:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by majnun99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hah im indian too! helloooo
u should listen to some of the popular songs now and then permit them or not permit them. ( but thats only if they were like, 6!)
theyre 15, im sure they kno way more than u think they do
2007-07-18 17:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm South American. (indian)
Permit them. It's actually OK. If you want to see something that will kill them, listen to 50 Cent.
The only thing that will change them is the move to the US.
That makes them so American.
2007-07-18 16:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love Bollywood films. Does that mean I go out stalking Indian women? No.
2007-07-18 16:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we talking Coke or Pepsi?
2007-07-18 16:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by Stargazer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you indians ever heard of condoms?
2007-07-18 16:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋