My in laws are staying with me certainly. I have become increasely upset with the way that my father in law has been hitting on my kids. My husband talked to him numerous times telling him he needed to stop. Finally we asked him to leave. He said consider this my 30 day notice. Well it is now going on 50 days and he is still here. When I asked my mother in law when he was going to leave she stated if I want him out then evict him. Well, it ended with my father in law attempting to assualt me in the hall. My mother in law is now on a compaign to try to get me thrown in jail. But, they won't leave. What can I do? My husband thinks if we leave it alone right now it will "work itself out"
HELP!!
2007-07-18 15:30:09 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs.Crow 4 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
We are indeed renting. He is NOT on the lease.
2007-07-18 17:03:05 · update #1
I doubt it can be left alone. Your father in-law has committed both child abuse (they are not his children) and assault and as the children are yours, you may have him charged with both formally.
Your husband gave him his 30-day notice.
I suggets you go to domestic court and have them formally and legally evicted. At the least they are putting both a strain on your family relationship and the children's relationship with any of thier grandparents.
as the child of one abusive step-parent, an abusive grandparent , from either side would have made me positively homicidal
2007-07-18 15:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by jimdragontech 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This will never work itself out. Call the police and report him for beating on your kids. The cops will also know the legal steps to take in your locality to get rid of them. This is your husband's fault. He needs to grow a pair of balls before his dad hurts your kids, or you. It sounds like he doesn't care too much for his wife and kids if he is allowing this to take place. Call the cops. Stop feeding them.
2007-07-18 15:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are they renting from you? Is there a lease involved? If not, tell them to move out. Your house is your house.
If there is a lease involved, then the lease must be honored, or the person must be evicted.
2007-07-18 16:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what is best for you and your children. If they will not leave willingly call the police and have them removed. This is crazy. Your husband needs to support you on this, if he does not and he insist on his folks staying then get you and your kids out as soon as possible
2007-07-18 15:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by ladyc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flash bangs and rubber bullets. Any other questions?
2007-07-18 16:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by LawGunGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋