He is not my direct boss but he is one of the VP for his department (not my departement though). I know he's married and have kids too. Why am I so attracted to him? Everytime I see him or even hear his name somewhere, my heart starts beating really fast.It's gotten to a point where I want to sleep with him!!! I'm only a summer intern so I only have little over a month left to see him. What do I do?? Any advice?
2007-07-18 15:05:33 · 12 answers · asked by wcfk2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is not my direct boss but he is one of the VP for his department (not my departement though). I'm 21 and he is 40. I know he's married and have kids too. Why am I so attracted to him? Everytime I see him or even hear his name somewhere, my heart starts beating really fast.It's gotten to a point where I want to sleep with him!!! I'm only a summer intern so I only have little over a month left to see him. What do I do?? Any advice?
2007-07-18 15:09:04 · update #1
Don't do a thing to push this. He is married and you could destroy a lot.
2007-07-18 15:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he reciprocated your interest, he wouldn't be the kind of guy you'd want to get involved with anyway. Keep it professional. A month will go by in no time, and the crush may fade even sooner.
2007-07-18 22:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by MM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no. We've all been 21 . . . trust me - you'll find another crush!
The age thing doesn't bother me. . . actually, the crush doesn't bother me either. What's sooooo terribly wrong here is that you are wanting to sleep with a married man!
Karma is a real b*tch . . . she'll find you - wherever you go. Hell, she may wait till you are married with kids and have a nice fine-looking husband yourself.....
I think you should let it go!
2007-07-18 22:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by heartkisser2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
from the potrait you paint unfortunatly this man has no feelings for you, so you aprroaching wouldnt be a wise move
reasons
1. he might think you are offering him sex to secure a place in the company later or
2. he might think you are offering him urself for his money.
its ok to have a crush on him, but his position and urs makes it almost impossible for a relationship
2007-07-18 22:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by uncrowned ruler 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get your own man, it's not wrong to have a crush on a married man but it's wrong to go out with him, because guess what he is with his wife because he loves her, all he will do is take advantage of you once he knows that you have a crash on him, forget him
2007-07-18 22:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry its just a crush its healthy as long as it doesnt affect your life too much if it REALLY bothers you (and this will sound crazy) talk to him about it and he will also understand as women like older men more than you would think
2007-07-18 22:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by bubba333 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
best advice is accept your crush and leave him alone except for pure work --- find someone else outside of work (regardless of age) and enjoy their company --- best wishes
2007-07-18 22:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.
It's just infatuation. Don't do anything that would cause trouble for him at work or with his family.
2007-07-18 22:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by Moo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not the age thing thats so wrong hes married leave him alone!!
2007-07-18 22:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by kittypurplegirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get over it, he is married and will not get you anywhere but hurt.
2007-07-18 22:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by ga m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋