Why men don't like when their wives try to hug them, kiss them, all that romantic **** and tell him I love you

Answer 1

Men want respect above all else. If he doesn't feel respected by you, he may start pushing away. He probably knows you love him, but wants to feel the respect and doesn't know how to say it...

Answer 2

Different people express love, and receive love, in different ways. If you express love in a way that he does not understand or appreciate, then he does not feel loved even though you meant well.

Try reading "The Five Love Languages" by Dr. Gary Chapman.
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Chapman's Five Emotional Love Languages:

Words of Affirmation
This is when you say how nice your spouse looks, or how great the dinner tasted. These words will also build your mate's self image and confidence.

Quality Time
Some spouses believe that being together, doing things together and focusing in on one another is the best way to show love. If this is your partner's love language, turn off the TV now and then and give one another some undivided attention.

Gifts
It is universal in human cultures to give gifts. They don't have to be expensive to send a powerful message of love. Spouses who forget a birthday or anniversary or who never give gifts to someone who truly enjoys gift giving will find themselves with a spouse who feels neglected and unloved.

Acts of Service
Discovering how you can best do something for your spouse will require time and creativity. These acts of service like vacuuming, hanging a bird feeder, planting a garden, etc., need to be done with joy in order to be perceived as a gift of love.

Physical Touch
Sometimes just stroking your spouse's back, holding hands, or a peck on the cheek will fulfill this need.

Answer 3

Men and women are on a completely different level emotionally. I consider myself very in love with my girlfriend, but I don't like to kiss her. I don't know why, but I don't enjoy kissing. I don't hate it, but there's no desire to kiss her. I express my feelings through other ways. I take care of her, help her with her problems, and our physical relationship is completely healthy. I don't mind saying I love you, I say it all the time. I love hugs. Sometimes certain guys are stuck to the "tough guy" routine. Maybe thats why. Many men are afraid of vulnerability. I think whoever you're referring to is afraid that love and affection is a sign of weakness. Its almost impossible to change this behavior, so either you stand by your man, or you find a sweeter one. They're out there, I promise.

Answer 4

well it might depend on what he's doing when you start all the romantic stuff. In public, while he busy, talking to a bunch of guys, never a good time to put yourself on display, nope.

Answer 5

don't like ??
they must be fool ones..